We are on a good track if we have not railed against the truth as many seem to do with impunity on this forum. We are called to exhort rebuke and correct with all sound doctrine from the word. We all have copies of the bible. That is the beginning point of our conversation.
As musicians can communicate based on music theory...let's say...we are playing in e flat major!!!. Musicians can then quickly tell if the player knows music and his instrument. It takes only a few seconds to ascertain this.
the same is true with spiritual things....regarding the truth...by how one reads the bible..or twists it's meaning.
We cannot judge a person's walk on this forum since we are not with the person.
So our chats are limited to the shared experience of reading the bible and our experiences with God and others.
So if you resort to "theories" that are outside the bible..we have no ground to communicate on.
If a violinist says he's playing in the key of raspberries...no one will understand what he is talking about. He may be showing that he has no real grasp of music at all.
So I appeal to you to use actual verses with actual practical applications and ramifications based on that word. If you fall short of the word...then be humble and teachable. If you don't know what e flat minor means...you can always ask.