Justinian - Jiggy and George MacDonald appear to have similar views on universal reconciliation - MacDonald wasn't quite a universalist. For me, I have a sneaky suspicion that God is all about mercy and love and powerful transformation - He is going to blow people away with His redemption of the Body.
I think all Christians should hope and pray for universal reconciliation. During the Judgment, I want to be crying 'mercy', not 'burn them all!' Unfortunately, many Christians I have talked with seem to revel in the idea of sinners 'getting what the deserve!' and hoping that God will avenge those wronged by the sinner, instead of praying for healing. Conversely, it seems to me that Jesus was not joking around about 'loving our enemies' or forgiveness.
If I die believing in Hell and there is not a Hell, it will be my fear that held me back from accepting God's total reconciliation and it will not be the first time I underestimated God. All I can say is, their is nothing wrong with hoping for mercy and God's power to be revealed in a 'Surprised by Joy' sort of way.
Like I have said over and over, the OT is a character assassination of the Father, based on the point of view of the writers - which is the whole point!! God introduced Himself (I AM) and His sovereignty, humanity received the message and proceeded to respond in the most monstrous, nationalistic, twisted and unfaithful manner possible. In the NT, God responded to His own sovereignty, righteousness, and Goodness in the most perfect way - Jesus.
God was willing to walk with us through all the pain we have put over selves through in order to redeem us. He has been willing to speak the language of human, so that He could reach us in our shame and attempts to hide from Him.
The story of humanity is not our attempts to deal with an angry, bi-polar, borderline God - as he sometimes appears in the OT - it is about God in His infinite Goodness and Mercy, reaching out to the paranoid, angry and lost child of humanity, who constantly perceives His love as anger and fights His guidance and consistent, faithful love.
I trust that He will continue to walk with us and guide us and redeem us until the end.