@1stCenturyLady thank you for time and responses, while our views are in agreement with each other there just seems to be a misunderstanding that is either on my part or your part and to me it is not sure which one it is.
Jesus speaks to his disciples in the Gospel of John, and tells them "If you love me keep my commands." The apostolic age was in charge of keeping in check a spotless, unblemished, bride which was going to be gathered when the Lord had come back, (2 Cor 11:2; Ephesians 5:27; Rev. 19:7), there are 1,000 commands that Jesus had gave,(
https://www.abc.net.au/reslib/201407/r1308729_17984331.pdf 1,050 Apostolic Commands. While I do not personally believe that eternal punishment, is something that human beings will ever experience, there will ones own done harm, when it comes to receiving from God a spiritual body (1 Cor. 15:44; John 14:2-6; John 5:29) be it condemned and not being able to dwell near the Kingdom, perhaps so far away they do not even know it is there, and the faithless, and murderers, and liars, and sexually immoral (Revelation 22:14-15) live outside of the gates (which never close) of the Heavenly Kingdom; however blessed are those who do his commandments (Revelation 22:14), for they may have the right to the tree of life, and may enter through the gates into the city. The aspects of the commandments found in the Apostolic, are totally subjective to us today. While there is merit in a person who subjects themselves to the commandments given to them, Yahava, Yahweh, the God of Israel, still is looking at the heart.
While I greatly believe, that following the Lord Jesus, and reading the Gospels, and reading all of the letter to Rome, and Philippians, and Colossians, and the rest of the letters in the apostolic record, and a person who faithfully (Hebrews 11:6) has a relationship with their Father who adopts (Ephesians 1:5; Romans 8:!5; Galatians 4:4-5) them, that person who claims faith, that they worship God (Revelation 19:10), and they also choose to look at the Lord Yeshua (John 1:12), (John 4:24) in spirit and truth, and the relationship continues day to day, talking to God (Philippians 4:6), and asking him to help you by the holy spirit (Luke 11:13), he will help them. It is always up to the individual, there are different measures of faith (Romans 12:3).
Every person who is a believer in the Lord Yeshua, whom Yahava, had sent, are given the holy spirit (John 15:26), whereas you stated Yahava writes on the hearts and minds of those who are his, (Jeremiah 31:33), Yahava looks at the heart, not the outside. Within them they are changed and born again (John 3:3-8), they are given the holy spirit and Yahava, by the holy spirit of God, resides within the believer (1 Corinthians 3:16), and also the Spirit of Christ also dwells in them, and those who follow him, crucify the flesh to it's desires and pleasures, which are all done by and through the spirit of Christ, and abiding in the vine (John 15), where the eternal waters give drink (John 4:14), and the eternal bread (John 6:35) feeds those who are partaking in the blood and flesh (John 6:53-56) of the Lord Jesus Christ.
Even though these are great and wonderful things that can be known just as such as becoming dead to sin and alive in Christ (Romans 6), putting aside the things which the flesh goes after, by the reaction within the soul of an individual (mind/will/emotion), which the flesh is used, to place anger upon, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language, (Colossians 3:8-9) putting away the old self with its practices, making every effort to add to ones faith goodness, and to goodness, knowledge and to knowledge, self-control and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness, mutual affection, to mutual affection, love in which one will not be unproductive in ones knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ. (2 Peter 1:5-8) A good answer to the question "What is love, the love of God?" (1 Corinthians 13)
People do, and can fail in their flesh sometimes. It may not be like it once used to be, and as Christ grows more into a person who continues to grow and abide and learn, allow him to help them in their self-control, or to produce more goodness, or help in being able to help by the spirit to share with others about the Lord if one is lead. The reason why it is important in my view to understand that, even though I believe to have been converted over from the power of darkness into the Kingdom of the Son of God, I still have to admit that my flesh naturally loves the darkness, and if it wants it own way, and one is not abiding in Christ, sometimes quenching on the spirit happens, however, there is loss, when a person does choose to do sins that lead to death, because of the quenching of the spirit.
For this reason, it is stated that, from my understanding, while one has faith in Christ, they are made right with God (Romans 5), and while people can be helped in their flesh by the spirit, there is no promise of never having sinful action (Romans 7:17) that may come up to tempt (James 1:13-15), the flesh (Romans 7:24-25), however, the option, of course, is always to fall back on God, and his love, having and maintaining a relationship with fellowshipping with the Father and the Son (1 John 1:3)
