It was clearly your intention to provoke, which is fine, and you have received entirely predictable responses.The bible god is evil, even by his own standards. If he was good, then he would give every soul as much time as necessary to turn good and turn to him. Every soul would turn to god, if given enough time to fight the evil within by experience.
The Christian model is indeed difficult to explain in emotionally and intellectually satisfying terms and does strike many as being as primitive and barbaric as other ancient religions.
Your thesis that all would turn to the good if given enough time is difficult to sustain. Apart from any Christian theology, the history of the world suggests the opposite. Regardless of whether Christianity is ontologically true, one of the essential truths it captures is that there does indeed seem to be some mysterious propensity toward evil at both the individual and societal levels. Even the smallest, most well-intentioned experiments in communal utopian living have never succeeded - human nature always rears its ugly head.
But you do make a legitimate point that we have been discussing on other threads. Two legitimate objections are that (1) the consequences of not turning to Christ - whether eternal torment or fiery annihilation - do seem extreme for a supposed God of Perfect Holiness, Wisdom, Justice and Love, and (2) it's very clear that the vast majority of people who have ever lived have not received a full and fair opportunity to turn to Christ, which is consistent with the point you're making and again raises doubts about Perfect Holiness, Wisdom, Justice and Love.
Reincarnation, one of the oldest doctrines in human religious thought, would largely resolve these problems, but most Christians aren't willing to entertain that possibility.
The responses you've received are what I call "Christian pabulum." We can't face the real issues, so we say what we think we are supposed to say. We all deserve fiery torment. Everyone has an opportunity to turn to God. It all makes sense. It's all consistent with Perfect Holiness, Wisdom, Justice and Love. Yada yada.
Thinking Christians recognize the issues, wrestle with them, and arrive at some sort of intellectually and emotionally satisfying understanding. I think this has to be done on an individual basis - my understanding may not resonate with anyone else, nor can I force it on anyone else.
I think if you raised these issues in a less dogmatic and intentionally provocative way, you might get more thoughtful responses.