Those are great scriptures, but he mentions it to being your relationship with God, so a personal thing I think he meant. So to me the question is what/how do you personally develop a relationship with Jesus. What you quote is more group things, he made it sound it is a personal thing... I will have to ponder it more.
Yes, it should be personal. Even in corporate worship.
We don't have to be alone with God to experience spiritual intimacy.
And I actually appreciate and leverage these gatherings where
so many Spirit-filled believers are together in one place.
I can actually feel the tangible presence of God as I approach the building.
And it grows when I encounter those inside. The presence is strongest up at the altar.
I hesitate to share this next bit. It was given to me personally in a prophetic letter to me from God.
My sister wrote the letter for me and gave it to me on my birthday. Such a gift!
The letter said many personal things to me. I have yet to fathom the complete depths of it.
One thing it said was, "I long to walk with you every day, But you need to ask me every day."
So, I make a practice of inviting Him into my day. Just a simple prayer, and He goes with me.
"Father God, will you walk with me today?" His presence goes with me.
I suppose you could try it and see what happens.
Another thing that was an important step for me was personal worship.
I would put on a worship music CD at home and worship just like I was at church.
I remember a few times being completely overwhelmed by the Spirit.
I leaned against a wall to remain on my feet. My knees were buckling. - LOL
This is probably what Graham Cooke means by "ministering to the Lord". Personal worship.
We minister to people to meet their needs. But what does God need?
To bad you couldn't find a video. Being in scripture yourself would be key to it I would think.
Being in scripture is important. As a young man I read the entire Bible cover to cover.
I wrote my own cross-references and study notes all over it. The book finally fell apart. - LOL
What I gained was a solid recall of much of it.
It seems that most everything that happens during the day brings scripture to mind.
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