I think people like to try to bend peoples will over to themselves...
There are many people who love this type of power.
When it comes to free will or are we predestined.
It's like someone suggest that Jesus saves them, but doesn't save martha or mary, cause they were not predestined or chosen...
Think about a family dinner scene.
Dad, Mom, maybe 2 sons and a daughter all eating together. And Dad says to the 2 sons, boy Im glad were predestined and chosen by God, arent you mom and daughter?
Like... you see the problematic rising of improperly even starting to address something to begin with.
First, figure out what predestined means - and maybe figure out - who it was that were going to be predestined to be saved by Jesus when he was to come back... and these predestined people had a choice to either - deny God and Jesus, or accept him....
Everyone in the world has free will.
Some people - preachers, family members, co-workers, people in general out there in the world - will try to bend your will and ways towards them, and not allowing people to think and choose for themselves....
Don't get trapped in the whole "predestined curse, of society or culture." But in some sense people who have "generational curses" are stimming from repeated actions of what was done to the person causing the action itself... for the long haul when looked at it does seem that when cycles of abuse start to show up, it does a whole lot of damage to not only oneself, but to other people if they are not able to address themselves responsibly and make better actions towards the greater of not harming others.
I dont really believe in predestination as a concept to like live my in my life... One day I know I will die, and apparently when reading the bible there is talking of raising up the spiritual person which is you with Christ in you and then when you build up on him in the spiritual gleannings of life - by living the Spirit of Christ - throughout all your years it will be something worthwhile, it will be all the works of Christ in you done by you allowing him to flow in and through you now today...
Those are just some of my thoughts. I try to be affirmative when talking, doesn't mean I am always right, I can be wrong but I do want to share these things cause I do find them highly important at least in becoming aware of.