You state: Should you be insulting people because they do not seem to understand or agree with your position of things or what you consider the most important things. Perhaps it is you who cannot see or understand their connection with God... even though you apparently believe that you can.
In Reply, it was never my intention to insult anyone, and if in so doing I apologize, nevertheless we have a responsibility as the Lord’s representatives.
“The Apostle Paul was a plain uncompromising teacher. When he knew he had the truth, he spoke it with confidence, and boldly declared that everything contrary to it was false doctrine; and he taught his disciples that it was not only their privilege, but likewise their duty also, to be established in the faith and to know, on the evidence of God's Word, why they believed, and to be able to give to every man that inquired for it a reason for the hope that was in them.
Unfortunately there is among Christians today a great lack of established faith on any point of doctrine. They say, "I think," "I hope," or "Perhaps it may be so, but this is only my opinion, and it may be right or it may be wrong” or “I have charity, however, for your opposing opinion, and for every man's opinion; for who knows which is right? What is truth? I'm sure I cannot say; but, nevertheless, I have great faith and charity (?)” “Nobody knows”, “I shake hands with everybody and call him brother if he claims to be a Christian, no matter what he believes and teaches. In Christian love I bid them all Godspeed and pray for the success of all their teachings, no matter how antagonistic they may be to each other or to the Scriptures as I read them."
All this passes among Christians generally for large-hearted benevolence and personal humility, while in fact it is an ignoble, a compromising spirit that is unwilling to forego the friendship of those who oppose the Lord by opposing the truth; and which would rather see the truth suffer, and those weak in the faith stumbled, than that they should bear the reproach of Christ.
Sorry but we cannot do that, it is our duty to point out error where we see it, and to help those weak (unlearned) in faith. “You shall speak my words to them, whether they hear or whether they refuse…” Ezek 2:7
You must I suppose preach or teach what you accept as truth. I don't argue against someone doing that. Neither do I consider it always to be wishy washiness to hold to a reasonable doubt about even the strongest doctrines held. A person who never allows for the possibility of his own errors may block even God from helping that person to grow.