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Cristo Rei

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I've seen a person get banned from a forum just for bringing up this topic but on another forum ive seen one of the most intriguing conversations. These are genuine questions that many theologians have spent time pondering along with the average person... So im hoping a civilized discussion can ensue here without anyone getting triggered...

We know that sex has to be performed in a traditional hetrosexual marriage but what is sex?
Does God place any limitations in the bedroom?
On one hand a person in another forum said that his priest told him that anything outside of missionary position was sinful.
On the other hand there is hand sex, oral sex, anal sex and toys...

So, what do u think? Where do u draw the line? Where do u think God draws the line?
 

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I've seen a person get banned from a forum just for bringing up this topic but on another forum ive seen one of the most intriguing conversations. These are genuine questions that many theologians have spent time pondering along with the average person... So im hoping a civilized discussion can ensue here without anyone getting triggered...

We know that sex has to be performed in a traditional hetrosexual marriage but what is sex?
Does God place any limitations in the bedroom?
On one hand a person in another forum said that his priest told him that anything outside of missionary position was sinful.
On the other hand there is hand sex, oral sex, anal sex and toys...

So, what do u think? Where do u draw the line? Where do u think God draws the line?
Would oral sex be just talking about it?
 

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you are only allowed to have sex for the porpouse of creating a child.
 

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I've seen a person get banned from a forum just for bringing up this topic but on another forum ive seen one of the most intriguing conversations. These are genuine questions that many theologians have spent time pondering along with the average person... So im hoping a civilized discussion can ensue here without anyone getting triggered...

We know that sex has to be performed in a traditional hetrosexual marriage but what is sex?
Does God place any limitations in the bedroom?
On one hand a person in another forum said that his priest told him that anything outside of missionary position was sinful.
On the other hand there is hand sex, oral sex, anal sex and toys...

So, what do u think? Where do u draw the line? Where do u think God draws the line?
He says for their shall be no sodomite numbered among you.
This is crazy that God has to spell it out. They should have known that this is nasty and unhealthy?
His law is good and for our good it's when we begin to try and justify ourselves by the keeping of it, that we get in to trouble.
 
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you are only allowed to have sex for the porpouse of creating a child.

Who told u that? Are you sure your not mistaken? Not even the RCC and all the saints and theologians are that strict.
Actually i think Aquinas thought that it was a sin to have sex purely for pleasure, id have to check that

He says for their shall be no sodomite numbered among you.
This is crazy that God has to spell it out. They should have known that this is nasty and unhealthy?
His law is good and for our good it's when we begin to try and justify ourselves by the keeping of it, that we get in to trouble

Ok lets get more detailed.
Sodomy is anal intercourse by definition so i call it unclean
Using toys i would consider to be unnatural
Oral is ok i think. We kiss with our lips
Are you with me with that?
 
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Who told u that? Are you sure your not mistaken? Not even the RCC and all the saints and theologians are that strict.
Actually i think Aquinas thought that it was a sin to have sex purely for pleasure, id have to check that



Ok lets get more detailed.
Sodomy is anal intercourse by definition so i call it unclean
Using toys i would consider to be unnatural
Oral is ok i think. We kiss with our lips
Are you with me with that?
Well, I'd have to say it's up to the married couple, but hopefully to the glorification of God.
 

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Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
1st Corinthians 7:5

I bet you are not married.
Theres also scripture that something to the effect of let all things be done as unto the Lord. Maybe with this perspective people will conduct themselves properly?
 

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Theres also scripture that something to the effect of let all things be done as unto the Lord. Maybe with this perspective people will conduct themselves properly?
My bad, I was responding to your opinion on oral sex, I should have made that clear.
 
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