Hi Robert,
I noticed you didn't quote the passages, only referenced them. So I'll include them for you so we can look at them together.
Mark 10:39-40 KJV
39) And they said unto him, We can. And Jesus said unto them, Ye shall indeed drink of the cup that I drink of; and with the baptism that I am baptized withal shall ye be baptized:
40) But to sit on my right hand and on my left hand is not mine to give; but it shall be given to them for whom it is prepared.
Mark 13:30-32 KJV
30) Verily I say unto you, that this generation shall not pass, till all these things be done.
31) Heaven and earth shall pass away: but my words shall not pass away.
32) But of that day and that hour knoweth no man, no, not the angels which are in heaven, neither the Son, but the Father.
I'm not seeing in these passages any statement one way or the other, Jesus is God, Jesus is not God, These don't tell us this.
I'm guessing you are referring to that Jesus was not determining the who sits where, and that He didn't know the time of His return?
Is this correct?
Philippians 2:4-11 KJV
4) Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others.
5) Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:
6) Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God:
7) But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men:
8) And being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross.
9) Wherefore God also hath highly exalted him, and given him a name which is above every name:
10) That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of things in heaven, and things in earth, and things under the earth;
11) And that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.
Philippians 2:7 LITV
7) but emptied Himself, taking the form of a slave, having become in the likeness of men
To me, lacking a specific statement otherwise, these questions are answered here in Philippians, that the Son of God emptied Himself, and took upon Himself the humble form of a servant, so that He said,
I only do what the Father does, I only say what the Father says.
"Made himself", "took upon Himself", these are transitional words which speak of a pre-existant being who 'became' in the form of a servant, of a man.
Who was that?
Much love!