Abortion/Adoption

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As the majority of us are probably against abortion, we should be therefore championing the cause of adoption.

Yet I have not seen any movement in the churches to set up funds on a world scale to support adoption nor a call for us to pay more taxes in our nations to support a drive for adoption over abortion.

Why do you think that is?
 

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pom2014 said:
As the majority of us are probably against abortion, we should be therefore championing the cause of adoption.

Yet I have not seen any movement in the churches to set up funds on a world scale to support adoption nor a call for us to pay more taxes in our nations to support a drive for adoption over abortion.

Why do you think that is?
The reason for this is that the churches are being forced out of the adoption business for refusing to adopt children out to gay couples. The cost is being transferred from the church to the tax payer, and the churches that see gay marriage as an unhealthy environment for children aren't going to offer financial support.
 

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shnarkle said:
The reason for this is that the churches are being forced out of the adoption business for refusing to adopt children out to gay couples. The cost is being transferred from the church to the tax payer, and the churches that see gay marriage as an unhealthy environment for children aren't going to offer financial support.
Addresses the issue of why they do not sponsor their own adoption programmes, but does nothing to address the proper payment of taxes so that secular interests can carry on.

Also what did Moses' mother do?

Did she let him die because she was so pigheaded that she would rather him die a Jew than possibly be brought up by gentile Egyptians?

I think this is a speck and a mote issue in the churches.
 

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pom2014 said:
Addresses the issue of why they do not sponsor their own adoption programmes, but does nothing to address the proper payment of taxes so that secular interests can carry on.

Also what did Moses' mother do?

Did she let him die because she was so pigheaded that she would rather him die a Jew than possibly be brought up by gentile Egyptians?

I think this is a speck and a mote issue in the churches.
If I'm reading your correctly, you seem to think that the churches don't sponsor their own adoption programs? I didn't say that. The fact is that they still sponsor their own adoption programs where their programs haven't been outlawed. Secular interests can still carry on, but the operative word isn't secular, but government interest. Private secular interests don't demand tax payer money to operate, only the government operations and they only have to ask if they need it. The government interests could have let these adoption agencies run themselves at their own expense, but they preferred to pay for it at tax payer expense. That's their problem, not the church's.

Moses mother set Moses adrift for the sole purpose of him being raised as an Egyptian. The only other option was certain death by the Egyptian government. It isn't a "speck and a mote" issue. A speck and a mote are essentially the same thing. The issue is one of a "beam and a speck", or a "beam and a mote" issue, but the church with all of it's obvious flaws isn't the one with the beam in this case. It is under no obligation to wander away from, or be forced to transgress it's own moral and ethical standards. It complied with the law and handed their operations over due to government coercion. No, the beam is in the government's eye. The church didn't have a problem adopting babies out to couples. The government saw what it perceived to be a "speck", i.e. a problem which it felt needed to be corrected. Now that they are the one's running the show, they want the church to pay for it because they can't run it as efficiently as the church did without one cent of tax payer money.
 

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shnarkle said:
If I'm reading your correctly, you seem to think that the churches don't sponsor their own adoption programs? I didn't say that. The fact is that they still sponsor their own adoption programs where their programs haven't been outlawed. Secular interests can still carry on, but the operative word isn't secular, but government interest. Private secular interests don't demand tax payer money to operate, only the government operations and they only have to ask if they need it. The government interests could have let these adoption agencies run themselves at their own expense, but they preferred to pay for it at tax payer expense. That's their problem, not the church's.

Moses mother set Moses adrift for the sole purpose of him being raised as an Egyptian. The only other option was certain death by the Egyptian government. It isn't a "speck and a mote" issue. A speck and a mote are essentially the same thing. The issue is one of a "beam and a speck", or a "beam and a mote" issue, but the church with all of it's obvious flaws isn't the one with the beam in this case. It is under no obligation to wander away from, or be forced to transgress it's own moral and ethical standards. It complied with the law and handed their operations over due to government coercion. No, the beam is in the government's eye. The church didn't have a problem adopting babies out to couples. The government saw what it perceived to be a "speck", i.e. a problem which it felt needed to be corrected. Now that they are the one's running the show, they want the church to pay for it because they can't run it as efficiently as the church did without one cent of tax payer money.
The beam in the eye of the church from your original message was that their programmes were being curtailed by the government stating that gays could adopt and the churches felt they had more moral right to deny that child from finding a family due to sexual orientation.

This is what I am getting at when I said that Moses' mother let gentiles raise him rather than he die.

If she had been like these churches you speak of she would NEVER let some dirty gentile have him.

This is why the government hits the churches because they cannot obey the law on allowing gays equal rights. Same issue with the baker and the wedding cake for gays.

This is the classic example that Jesus raised about the sabbath and leaving a lamb in a pit until the sabbath was over rather than work on the sabbath.

We know that we are to help the lamb not let it perish until the sabbath is done.
We know that Moses' mother said it was better to be raised by gentiles than for him to die. (and if you notice he was raised by them and STILL God brought Moses to his side)

So what should these churches do?

Let the child have a home, even IF gay, and let God bring that child back to him when the time is right. Like he did Moses.

In other words, keep to love and let the Lord work his will. It is obvious that God brought the gay couple to that place to adopt so that child may have a family. God will sort out the rest.

But no, from what you said and still maintain, that they would rather NOT be in adoption as they won't follow a law (breaking what Paul said in Romans 13:1-8) of the government, even when on that rare occasion that law satisfied the Second Great Command.

It is SO RARE when that happens, but here it did and the church said NO.

Further your assertion that the government is incapable of running things efficiently is also false. They have made the interstate work for years longer than it was intended, keep the time, make sure your water is clean for drinking and showering, protect us from war on your own soil, make sure you have clean and safe food and many other things.

Your government is quite effective in many areas.

What it boils down to you have no trust of it and why? Because you wanted someone else to monitor your republic when YOU are the final arbiter in its actions.

But it would mean actually doing something like get into the street and possibly get hit with a rubber bullet or a water cannon.
 

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Pom I have been posting on this issue for years....I am glad to see that you are bringing it up because the best way to fight abortion is by promoting christian adoption. The shakers and Quarters fought against slavery by buying the freedom for thousands of slaves. We need to do the same type of radical intervention for mothers and babies stuck in poverty and addiction who face the evil of abortion.
 

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Pom I have been posting on this issue for years....I am glad to see that you are bringing it up because the best way to fight abortion is by promoting christian adoption. The shakers and Quarters fought against slavery by buying the freedom for thousands of slaves. We need to do the same type of radical intervention for mothers and babies stuck in poverty and addiction who face the evil of abortion.
I agree we do.

But here is the rub. Most Christians are well and fine with opening up their wallets for a church bake sale, a new steeple or even some food to be sent to a place they never heard of before; but they seem to be at pains to shell out the coin for adoption programmes.

They like to talk a big game about abortion, but outside of complaining or the odd street side demonstration, they are not really doing anything about the issue.

And they will not DARE to petition their government to have the government close the loopholes in the tax code, levy more taxes on corporations or rescind the tax free status on religious institutions (thereby getting that correct due on property taxes) to afford the programmes needed to education people on the ills of unwanted pregnancy, the use of conception or any system to promote adoption over abortion.

Rather they wish to keep the mammon, given by GOD, in their pockets and whine and moan that government and society is to blame for all the evil in the world.

Why? Because being an armchair Christian is easy.
 

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The beam in the eye of the church from your original message was that their programmes were being curtailed by the government stating that gays could adopt and the churches felt they had more moral right to deny that child from finding a family due to sexual orientation.

shnarkle: Their program wasn't being curtailed. They just flat out complied with the law as soon as they realized that they were going to be penalized for discriminating against the new privileged class. They weren't denying any children from finding a family. The families were waiting in line. Now they just have to wait that much longer as the new privileged class just got to cut into the line in front of them.
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This is what I am getting at when I said that Moses' mother let gentiles raise him rather than he die. If she had been like these churches you speak of she would NEVER let some dirty gentile have him.

shnarkle: False dichotomy. We aren't dealing with a situation where these babies were in danger of never being placed with a family, much less with death. There is no need to switch the characters to suit your agenda. The governments are equivalent in each case, even the reasons for their legislation are similar. In the case of Moses, the government is concerned with the Israelites becoming too numerous and powerful so they want to even the odds; they want something more egalitarian. The same is true today. In the modern scenario the governenet isn't killing the baby, instead the government is forcing the baby to be placed with a homosexual couple. In both cases it is a case of government coercion. In the former example death is the government solution, in the latter it is placement with homosexual couples. Moses' mother simply opts out of the government solution and that's what the church did as well. It's what mother's who would rather adopt, but who don't want their babies to end up with homosexual couples are going to do as well.
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This is why the government hits the churches because they cannot obey the law on allowing gays equal rights.

shnarkel: Again, you seem to be drawing from some sort of fictinoal history. The churches were obeying the law, and continued to obey the law. They were essentially given an ultimatum: place children with homosexual couples or get out of the adoption business. They chose the latter. They didn't break the law. At least the government gave them the option. You're condemnign them for obeying the law. You just don't like their choice. You'd rather they had no freedom of choice. You'd much prefer that they be forced to work against their will like a bunch of slaves.
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Same issue with the baker and the wedding cake for gays.

shnarkle: No, this red herring is a different animal altogether. In the baker scenario, he is being forced to support a political agenda. He was asked to write "Support Gay Marriage" on one of his cakes. He refused and was sued. Ask the Jewish Holocaust survivor to write "support the final solution" on the cake for the nazi, ask the animal rights activist to cater the researchers experimenting on animals, etc. They'll refuse until the day comes when nazi's and those doing animal research get their privileged status as well.
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Let the child have a home, even IF gay, and let God bring that child back to him when the time is right. Like he did Moses.

shnarkle; No, I would say let the church do what it wants to because this is supposed to be a free country. If you or anyone else thinks that they can do a better job, then go ahead and open your own adoption agency. Let the market decide. Let the people who have babies that they want to put up for adoption take them to the adoption agency that they want to. Notice also that you're explicitly placing yourself on the side of the government that is in favor of killing Israelite babies.
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But no, from what you said and still maintain, that they would rather NOT be in adoption as they won't follow a law (breaking what Paul said in Romans 13:1-8) of the government, even when on that rare occasion that law satisfied the Second Great Command.

shnarkle; Contrary to your insistent, and I might add baseless; assertion, the church didn't break any laws. They simply complied with the law and handed their agency over to the government. Now we all have to pay for it, and you're complaining about the cost and finding fault with them for complying with the law.
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It is SO RARE when that happens, but here it did and the church said NO.

shnarkle: Not even close. They said, Okay, if you insist, we'll get out of the adoption business. To force them to stay in against their will is slavery in case you didn't know that.
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Further your assertion that the government is incapable of running things efficiently is also false.

shnakle: I'm not sure that's what I said, although the government is pretty inefficient now that I think about it. The point I do remember making was that you were lamenting the cost, and I pointed out that the church didn't cost the tax payer a single dime which is pretty efficient compared to what we have to pay now.
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They have made the interstate work for years longer than it was intended, keep the time, make sure your water is clean for drinking and showering, protect us from war on your own soil, make sure you have clean and safe food and many other things.

shnarkle: That's debatable, and also another red herring.
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Your government is quite effective in many areas.

shnarkle Yeah, sure that's why we have a national debt that is impossible to pay back. That's why our economy is going so strong that half the population is on government assistance. That's why there are over a million ex pats (the number is quickly growing) who don't file with the IRS anymore. That's why the government has begun to raise the application fee for renouncing citizenship. That's why the waiting list to renounce take over 3 years for them to get to it. That's why the Baltic Dry Index is down lower than it was when the last recession hit in 2008. That's why people are hoarding money. That's why governments and banks around the world are conspiring to figure out how to "bail in" and steal depositor's money out of their accounts. That's why the government is debasing our currency with ZIRP, QE, etc. The government is efficient at making useless laws, stealing, and kiliing people. Yeah, that's it, our government has to print TRILLIONS of dollars to keep this casino/ponzi scheme going because it's so efficient. lol Just keep on believing the lies the media shovels out; live in Oz for another day.
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What it boils down to you have no trust of it and why? Because you wanted someone else to monitor your republic when YOU are the final arbiter in its actions.

shnarkle: ?
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But it would mean actually doing something like get into the street and possibly get hit with a rubber bullet or a water cannon.

shnarkle: Yeah, right. That's it. That's going to make a difference lol. I'm already aware that we're living in a banana republic so there's no need to go protest just so I can feel like I've accomplished something when I haven't. No, if I want to make a change in our government, I'll lobby like everyone else who is able to get what they want from the government. Why would I waste my time getting shot at when I could just draw up a law and have a lobbiest pass it on to their page boy, aka "congressional representative"? Don't they teach civics anymore?
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Pom I have been posting on this issue for years....I am glad to see that you are bringing it up because the best way to fight abortion is by promoting christian adoption. The shakers and Quarters fought against slavery by buying the freedom for thousands of slaves. We need to do the same type of radical intervention for mothers and babies stuck in poverty and addiction who face the evil of abortion.

shnarkle: Not too long ago there was a news blurb about a Planned Parenthood getting their permits to build an abortion clinic, but when the contractor went to get the cement the cement company refused to sell to the contractors. He was the only game in town so Planned Parenthood had to cut their losses and move on. There are also some new laws just coming into effect that require abortion clinics to be able to have admitting status at a hospital in case of emergencies. Its an end run strategy to shut them down. The hospitals won't give them the permission they need so they can't do business. It's a similar strategy that the homosexuals used with church adoption agencies.
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But here is the rub. Most Christians are well and fine with opening up their wallets for a church bake sale, a new steeple or even some food to be sent to a place they never heard of before; but they seem to be at pains to shell out the coin for adoption programmes.

shnarkle: LOL! They don't have any problem forking out money to the Catholic church's adoption agencies, but you don't seem to have any problem with them being forced to exercise their moral standards there, except of course when they do exercise their moral standards. lol. They refused to stop adopting to heterosexual couples in favor of the new privileged class, which is effectively what they were being forced to do.
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They like to talk a big game about abortion, but outside of complaining or the odd street side demonstration, they are not really doing anything about the issue.

shnarkel: Evidently ignorance is bliss. There are plenty of churches actively educating people on the benefits of adoption over abortion, not to mention waiting until marriage to engage in sexual activity. Numerous programs run by churches dealing with the emotional and physical harm done to women, and counseling them to help them deal with these scars. Furtrhermore, the tide seems to be changing. More and more people are rethinking how horrible and barbaric abortion really is. More and more people are going to see how much better it is for a child to be brought up in a household with one mother and one father as well. There are already people speaking out on this issue who love their gay parents, but are voicing the fact that they missed out not having a mother or father. The militant homosexual community is ready to burn them at the stake. cause it's "for the children".
 

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Again, like the baker, the churches failed to keep the second command. To love as they would wish to be loved.

God would say they should have stayed, followed the law of Love and the love or the government as it was not contradicting the law of love.

Nut they left it behind because they thought they were morally BETTER than anyone else and would not allow a gay couple to adopt. So rather than sully themselves they gave up.

They chose piety over love. Just as the baker did.