Absolutely! Test everything, keeps what is good.Then the purpose for these discussions should be to learn what is true of other positions before assuming they are unbiblical.
We will not have a fruitful discussion if we can't be talking the same language. There can be a lot to untangle before coming to a real understanding.
Reflective Listening is a discipline where you set aside all response and counter arguments or whatever until you first have verified by repeating back in your own words that you understand what the other person is saying.
How many times have I shot off my mouth without realizing I'm misunderstanding? Hard to say . . . I just try to avoid it.
Much love!