i am not comfortable with the codependent aspect believers incorporate their definition of "love" with, but the concept is so hard to even realize a definition of i dont blame ppl who are surely coda themselves for not persuing a valid def, let alone seeing it in themselves, i mean that is the nature of the beast. It is the only modus operendi a coda understands, and a little attempt at conversation on the matter just doesnt work. Codependency is why we all hold our beliefs as Absolute Truths, imo, and it is openly acknowledged that the state seeks to manufacture codependents.
So of course anyone will agree with your words there, and certainly even most believers who could not even say what they went out into the wilderness to see--for the same reason--were surely sincere when they went through the rituals, might say they were committed to Jesus first at least, does that work?
A Nehushtan worshipper is just going to have a...problematic definition of Love, imo, intrinsic with the "please forgive me" vibe even, not sure i could make the causal chain tho