We are sinners saved by grace as you will know. We all make mistakes, and we all get the wrong end of the stick from time to time. I have been meditating on this for the last few days, and it came to me a few minutes ago.
I gave an illustration of a small child being drawn to an ice cream and I made the point it was not the ice cream that was doing the drawing, it was the child's desire. I stopped there, so let us see what happened next. In came the Father and like all good fathers he loved his children, and because of his love, he did the deal and gave the ice cream to the child. Now the ice cream, the Father and the Child are as one.
The Father, knowing his children, knew that some would go for the ice cream, and he also knew some of his children would walk away from the ice cream and instead choose the slot machines. That is God's foreknowledge, and he knew who they would be from the foundation of the earth. The choice is ours which we make of our own freewill. Some chose Christ while others do not.
The Father did not elect for some to choose ice cream and for others to choose something else, it was simply the Father's foreknowledge. Those who make the right choice, and chose Christ are God's elect. Denomination aside we are all one in Christ Jesus.
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Nice sentimental story, but has nothing to do with salvation.
God allows us choices in life like what to eat, wear. live, love drive etc.etc.etc. These are our choices within th ebounds God set for man. So we can learn to love ice cream or not!
But let me re quote the Bible verses that shows that your "parable" has nothing to do with salvation:
Romans 8:5-8
King James Version
5 For they that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh; but they that are after the Spirit the things of the Spirit.
6 For to be carnally minded is death; but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.
7 Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.
8 So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.
Romans 7:18
King James Version
18 For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not.
Romans 3:10-12
King James Version
10 As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one:
11 There is none that understandeth, there is none that seeketh after God.
12 They are all gone out of the way, they are together become unprofitable; there is none that doeth good, no, not one.
1 Corinthians 2:14
King James Version
14 But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.
So to follow your parable- that child doesn't even want ice cream!