You are sidewinding here. Apart from your opinions...what makes you think you are born again? It's funny you immediately deflect to self-effort...as if...you think you can be born again by just wanting to be???Being born again, is the definition, as this is the only proof of Salvation.
So, your self effort need to be recognized, is irrelevant, @Episkopos
Listen... the only Proof of being born again is...>"He that has NOT the Spirit of God, (in them) is none of God's".
So, that means that the proof of the new birth is..."Christ in YOU"., because the believer has become the "Temple of the Holy Spirit".