I 100% agree with
@Stranger .. on this one quote:-
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Well, think about it. If you make a vow, and can't keep a vow, yet he forgives you when you don't keep a vow, what good is a vow?
As I said earlier, He (Christ) simply turns to the Father, and says, don't listen to him. This is on Me.
Stranger )
Personally I believe that for NT saints , God is not pleased with vows.
ie Promises. We make promises via the emotions of our heart in the moment, rather than be really '
led of the Lord'.
Did God
lead you by
the hearing of the ear to make that promise?
With all my heart I promised my old mother that I would always keep her home with us until she died ( Dave and I had mum and dad living with us for a decade..since coming from England in their early 70's to join us...I nursed my old dad through heart failure and kidney failure here at home until he died...in his own room with all his books and bibles around him.)
So I promised/vowed this to my mother... Then about 6 years later she went into
senile dementia ...obviously in my "vow/promise " I had
not foreseen this!
It was curve ball...she started escaping from the house , once in bare feet in 25 degs below freezing!! .....and, I'd get a call from the police that she had walked into a house a couple of streets away...or into some house up the road...and was sitting on their couch!!
Long story short...I could not keep my promise. I was almost headed into a nervous breakdown ..I was worn out , I was worried.
I foresaw none of this.
Now... was God mad at me for breaking my promise?
I just HAD to put my mother in a Care Home, for her own safety and for my sanity.
I said sorry to my mother...not that could understand any more...and I said sorry to the Lord...and confessed that just like the story in Judges about Jephthah...who was- too hasty with his mouth and had no idea the weight of what he was saying and promising. A promise that he could not keep...
Jephthah was living under the law...we are NOT!
As Stranger has said...Jesus will stand in your stead..you Amadeus are not guilty...you did not know back then..the weight of
what you were promising.
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And Jephthah vowed a vow unto the Lord, and said, If thou shalt without fail deliver the children of Ammon into mine hands,
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Then it shall be, that whatsoever cometh forth of the doors of my house to meet me, when I return in peace from the children of Ammon, shall surely be the Lord's, and I will offer it up for a burnt offering. "
God saw the willingness of Abrahams heart...and it was accounted to him....
God sees and God knows..depths in us that we do not know....