The problem is, most are looking at the perfect man who chooses to be that way, but we are not perfect, We live in a fallen world and each day it only gets worse. There are many born with major deformities, they did not choose to be that way, it is the nature of this damned world we live in. So yes there are some who choose to be that way, but there are many others born that way and know no better. Can you tell which is which, I can certainly not. Again its like christians, they all say they are in Christ but for the most part many are not, the outside facade , appeareance is of a christian but the heart speaks of other things, can you tell who are in Christ, I cant except by the way they live, but even in that we could be wrong. When I stand befor Christ , and I wait to enter in. I hope He does not ask me to turn around and say, " what do you see", Lord hundreds and thouands of people", "do you know who they are", He says, No Lord tell me. These are those who you have called, liars, and sinners, and homosexuals and cheaters and fools. Oh, I might say. So now, He says, do you wish me to judge you as you see them or do you wish me to judge you as I see them. I know which choice I would make.
Mat_7:2 For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
Luk_6:37 Judge not, and ye shall not be judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive, and ye shall be forgiven:
In all His Love