Matthew 22:37
"Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. 38 This is the first and great commandment. 39And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. 40 On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets."
IT IS ALL ABOUT AGAPE! There is NO room for hate in the Gospel, we are allowed to HATE Satan and his wiles-we are allowed to and SHOULD HATE sin...never others as EVERY human being has been created in His image...I you have hate other than for the 2 I mentioned above, then you are of your father Satan, and have no place in Christ. God is LOVE!
Hate is as much a part of man as love is. It contributes to our personalities just like joy, sadness, grief, happiness, fear, does. They express how you feel. We are that way because we are created in the image of God. None of these are sin in and of themselves. They can be if they are misdirected.
Even love can be sin. We are told we are not to love the world. (1 John 2:15) "Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him." And God also inspired John to write (John 3:16). "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life."
Why would God love something but warn us not to love that same thing? Because we cannot love the world without being affected and destroyed by it. Thus you see that 'love' is not something that the believer must always be exhibiting toward everything and everyone. Love is not a blanket that the believer must wrap himself in and that is all you see.
God is love, of course. And the believer has the ability to display that love toward others because we have the Spirit of God. But if you were alive in Jacob and Esau's day, would God require you to love Esau, though He hated him? Or would you be in line with God if you hated Esau also? (Mal. 1:2-3) (Rom. 9:11-13)
(Matt. 22:34-40) deals with the greatest commandments of the law. And they are best described as loving God and your neighbor. In (Matt. 19:16-23) the rich young ruler asked Christ what he must do to inherit eternal life. Christ gave him the commandments including loving his neighbor as himself. To which the man said he has kept all these commandments. But he still was not saved.
Thus my point is that the Gospel is believe on Jesus Christ for forgiveness of sins and eternal life. Faith in Jesus Christ alone brings salvation. You are not even required to love God at that time, you are just required to come to Him. He loves you. And that will create a love in you for Him that continues to grow. And shall not your spirit reflect the way God feels about things as you walk with Him. Have you never come across someone you have never known or seen for the first time, and yet something in you is repulsed by this individual? I would say 'hate' but I know you don't like the word. But, haven't you? Do you try and force yourself to love this person though something inside detests this individual? Do you not think it could be the Spirit of God in you that despises the spirit of that individual.
But we still can give the gospel.
Stranger