Jesus being come in the flesh, to me, is synonymous with Him coming as a Man.
I am certainly not your judge; I only seek to warn you that you are walking on dangerous ground in denying that Jesus was a Man...it, impaho, is tantamount to denying that Jesus Christ is come in the flesh.
I may be wrong about this, in which case I am wrong in my judgment concerning you.
On that day, the Lord Jesus Christ will certainly judge your case before the Father; whether you can even have the Holy Spirit believing what you believe. Because it seems to me that the scripture teaches that to deny that Jesus came as a Man is to have the spirit of antichrist.
I would only say it to you as a warning: because if the definition that I offer for this spiritual test (1 John 4:1-3, 2 John 1:7) is accurate, then you have most certainly failed the test.
If you want to take a chance on the loophole that you seem to have created concerning this, then by all means do so; again I say to you that I am not your judge, but it will be the Lord Jesus Christ who judges you on that Day.
I would add, that it will be every word that He spoke that will also be your judge, whether it came out of His mouth or whether He spoke it through one of His servants via the Holy Ghost.