No person can be seen today who actually loves his neighbors, and all who he sees in need, as loves himself. Food, mortgage, transportation, furniture, vacation, education, clothes, health costs, entertainment, hobbies, insurances, retirement all show how we love ourselves.What makes you say that?
In fact, loving one's self is the lower standard, since Jesus commanded His Disciples to live each other as Jesus had loved them. Jesus' love for His Disciples was far more than our love for ourselves.