It was probably 15 or 20 years ago that a Seventh Day Adventist asked me why I was only keeping 9 of the Ten Commandments.
I had never heard that question before. But I came back pretty quickly to inform him that we Christians are not under the law.
This began a decade long debate on that particular forum. I learned a lot from my study in defense of my position.
Turns out that this particular SDA person wasn't too fond of my rebuttals. He had some choice words for me.
Then some COG (Armstrongism) folks join the fray. So, I had to educate myself on that business.
So, I have been at war against Sabbatarianism for a decade or two.
I won't trivialize your words here by presuming to apologize for what I could probably pretty accurately imagine you endured at the hands of these folks.
I don't like to perpetuate the "those were the days"/"old fogey" stereotype, but there truly is a lot that could be done to improve the spiritual state of the church by merely erasing the last 100 years or so. People used to be content with having to do slow and persevering work to influence others for good.
It's really sad that we find ourselves in a religious climate where witnessing for Christ has undergone the same instant gratification/drive-thru change in sensibilities that the world at large has.
And I dare say that some have graduated even to "drive-by" witnessing.
I wish I could say that I've always abstained from this kind of thing.
I went to a week-long lay evangelist training seminar in '92 that was geared toward studying Christ's actual method of reaching people and it was a watershed in my understanding of the Gospel.
Before that time I didn't realize that He wasn't too interested in satisfying people's curiosity about religion. It seems that He was more interested in meeting people's true needs, whether they even realized what they were or not so that they would be able to see through the barriers of prejudice and suspicion that we (understandably) build up, and see Him as someone who actually loved their souls. Then He could freely impart to them the words of life with little hindrance.
Most of the people He dealt with were Jews and, alas, I still too often default to a defensive mode of fellowship with other Christians. It seems that the hardest lessons are the ones we have to unlearn.
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