Yes it is a marriage cermony. Baptism is the nuptial bath that purifies us and dresses us in our wedding gown.
That we might enter the wedding chamber and be intimately united with our Groom.
Look, my whole reason for this thread is to talk about John 3:5. I am looking to see if the water talked about in that verse is spiritual water or literal water. I brought it up because those who absolutely believe water baptism is necessary bring it up as proof it must be done. I disagree.
But this is a side conversation that has peaked my interest! Perhaps it will prove to be related.
So we have water baptism. I am not against it, but who is it for? Who is baptized in a water baptism?
I have seen a water baptism. A young lady was submerged in water and came up. It was a moving ceremony! But it was a young lady... It was an individual. It was her moment. It was an individual being baptized.
That should NOT be called a marriage to Christ. That young lady was not the bride of Christ. She wore all white like the bride, she adorned herself like the bride, she was willing like the bride, but she was not the bride.
The Church is the bride. One body, many members. This was an individual member of the bride (and she was before she got in that large tub) getting baptized.
But she was not the bride of Christ. And that was not the bride taking her nuptial bath.
If you want to say the bride of Christ must be baptized in water to make herself ready, we all should've been in their with her! She was cute... I would've been all for it!
But yes, I agree the Bride of Christ (one body, many members) should be baptized. But neither the Pastor, the girl, nor her parents would've wanted us all in the tub!
And to anyone who thinks I am being rediculous in my analogies or hyperboles you ought to read the Church fathers like Augustine, Tertillian and Luther! Like them, I am being rediculous to make a point.
The Bible says in several places we must be baptized into Christ. That is, be immersed in him. A marriage involves the bride taking the man's name (or nature). Names often in the Bible reflect nature.
We must take his name or nature. The bride of Christ is the Church, not the individual, but the individual is part of the bride.
So if any liken baptism to being married to Christ, you must also consent that it is a spiritual bond by spiritual water.