I understand that some may not understand marriage as you say. What's mesmerizing is that even though over half the people who get married end in divorce the masses keep on incorrectly assuming that monogamy is the way and "If only I could find the right person it would be OK. Like I told a client of mine this week if you found the perfect guy he probably wouldn't choose you.
Whats been sad about my post is the lack of openness. Most people know that monogamy doesn't work, it hasn't worked for many on this site including some of those that have posted, but the religious person keeps on banging the same drum even when it doesn't works for the majority of the worlds people, how detached from reality is that? Sending pages of scriptures to back up a system that is broken and doesn't work is mesmerizing. Where do these people come from?
So for those that dont understand marriage, I suggest you start asking questions, problem is religious people dont ask questions because according to them they already have the truth.
Blindness beyond comprehension