As someone who has come to new understanding many times throughout my Christian life, I would just like to point out that the people you disagree with are not lying, nor rejecting God's word. They are simply understanding it differently. And yes, sometimes we, as Christians, will ignore (for lack of a better word) certain verses because they don't fit what we've already established in our minds to be true, but that is called cognitive dissonance and we're all susceptible to it.
When a presented fact does not fit with our already established facts, the dichotomy does not compute, so we have to discard one of the two facts. Naturally, most of us are going to discard the new fact, and hold onto what we've already established. This is human nature. It does not make one a bad person, or a liar, or a heretic.
In my experience, the only way someone is going to accept new facts is if they come into the conversation with an open mind. Some minds are more open than others, so when you come across a closed mind, insulting that person is not going to help. You're going to get frustrated yes, but the more you show your frustration, the more they close their mind. You can not open someone's mind, they have to do that on their own, but you can close it further, so be careful.
This is a 100 percent factual statement above.
One night I was praying unto the Lord and asking him why we as a church had so many answers for questions that had only one truth, like who Babylon is, who the Harlot is, who the 144,000 are et al, I got this answer
"Ron, you guys already know it all".
So, while I agree, it is human nature, we are supposed to put on Christ in full, and try to lose that sin nature as best we can. Now (this is funny) lets look at the worldly types, they are all in 100 percent agreement so much so that it is frightening, like zombies they move in unison, they are like lets abort babies, promote homosexuality, and promote trans idealism unto captive kids, they are all like sycophant zombies following the god of this world Satan over a cliff, they seem to have no idea, but they all follow the piper. Meanwhile we the church are disorganized, we can never receive new things it seems, but God was only going to release the end time understandings in the end times, so by being intrinsic, we push away God's new end time revelations.
Here is the truth, the end times are nothing like we once thought. There will be no meat sacrifice taken away, instead the False Prophet forbids Jesus worship
by the Jews (the 1/3 in Zech. 13:8-9) who repent. But everyone is tied to the old thought patterns, they can not see that the temple can not be defiled if its never been cleansed, God rent the temple, thus He left the temple, it can never be defiled until Israel repents and starts worshiping Jesus again,
just before the DOTL arrives in Zech. 14:1. Try as one might, your thesis above is all to true, the majority have that mindset and its stuck there, they can not be reached with these facts. So, I have to come to the conclusion the real problem is we are "too worldly ourselves, as the church" so much so the holy spirit can not unify us or reach us as he is want to do.