Yes it would lol
I think this is one issue. Why are we here?
1 to fellowship with like believers? That’s hard in a multi denominational chat room
2 to study Gods word? This is hard unless we are open to all things. Including the fact we may be wrong
3. To defend our beliefs? This is what causes most of the division because we can’t hear what the other person is saying we just hear an attack on our faith
4 to share our beliefs and be open to others to study and learn gods word with the knowledge we may learn something which may even go against what we have always believed. And also that not everyone will agree with us in every topic but we should not judge them because they do not come to our view but embrace them as brothers and sisters This is about the only form of discussion which will not be decisive or confrontational. At least in my view
sadly we have too many who come for the 1st three reasons. And then wonder why there can seemingly be no unity
Well... I am as guilty as anyone for fighting to defend my faith... Up until 3 months ago... I would not have even really known what a Christian Forum was... Back in early April... after feeling rather alone... I decided to join one such forum... I joined on April 9th... and "unjoined" some time in the middle of June... I left because I could not handle the arrogance of a select few.
I have only been here for a little over a week... and already 100 posts... ( BIG MOUTH or what ?? LOL )... What I have learned is how to listen a bit better... I have learned to "set and respect" my boundaries... ( this means I respect that there are certain topics I am UNABLE to discuss rationally)... I have four of them... Catholicism... Calvinism.. Word of Faith Movement/Prosperity Doctrine... and the loss of salvation.
Those topics drive me crazy... and so for my own sanity and peace of mind... I simply do not engage in ANY sort of discussion... these are topics that I try NOT to think about at all to be honest... as so much of my life has been affected by these things in a most negative way.
Because of this RULE... I am able to be PRESENT and neutral in most other topics that are important... I am able to LISTEN to what others have to say... and I am learning things I would NOT normally be open to learning...
I have listened to sermons from preachers who were well known members of Calvinism... and these were some of the best sermons I have ever heard... but I am not a Calvinist... and I loathe their doctrine... I never thought I would see the day that I would be able to humble myself and just LISTEN... but somehow... because I laid down my SWORD... the time came where I was able to listen to sound doctrine. These few sermons have forever changed the way I see things... and now I am a bit more open to listening a little more..
I have thought about topics that I once would never have thought about... but because of "LISTENING" to the viewpoint of another... I was challenged to look at what I was believing... and I changed my mind... not completely... but enough to do a bit more study...
WE all see through dimly lit glass... ALL of us... There is not one of us who knows the ENTIRE TRUTH of Who God is. I do think we are meant to
learn from each other ... however we have to take the time to be HONEST about what our ISSUES are... We all have those tender topics... knowing them... admitting that we have them... and avoiding them will at least allow for some growth on other fronts... That is my humble opinion.
I believe it is a CHALLENGE to put our swords down and come together with a heart to share... listen and hopefully learn... but it is POSSIBLE...I have experienced it.