Your hatred toward Amils is palpable. God have mercy upon you.BRETHREN IN CHRIST: (I do not recognize Spiritual Israelite as a brother in Christ, just so others know).
The actual... context of 2 Peter 3:7-12 is about God's future destruction of this present world by His "consuming fire", and Peter injects a bit of information pointing to Christ's future "thousand years" reign after that "consuming fire" destruction in verses 8 & 9. So when covering the subject of those 2 Peter 3:8-9 verses, those other 7, 10, 11 & 12 verses must be considered along with that. And the order of the subject is...
2 Peter 3:7 - this present world is reserved unto destruction by fire.
verse 8 - but don't be ignorant that to God a 'day' is like a "thousand years".
verse 9 - for God is longsuffering, not wanting that any should perish.
(Those 8 & 9 verses is Peter doing a parenthetical description of Christ's future literal "thousand years" reign which is part of this present world time after His future return.)
verses 10-12 - Peter then picks up the subject from verse 7 about God's "consuming fire" burning man's works off the earth.
What the Biblically illiterate, like Spiritual Israelite, refuses to understand per Bible Scripture as written, is that coming "consuming fire" event on the "day of the Lord" when Jesus returns, will NOT begin God's future Kingdom of the New Heavens and a New Earth, not yet. It will only destroy man's works off the surface of this earth, and those armies that try to come up against His people on the last day of this present world age. Christ's "thousand years" literal reign of Revelation 20 is part of this present world time, but for AFTER Christ's future return.
How do we know then, just when... God's new heavens and a new earth time comes?
Easy, ALL... the wicked that reject Him and His Son, and the abode of hell, and Satan, and even the concept of death, MUST all be destroyed into the "lake of fire" after God's Great White Throne Judgement that happens after Christ's "thousand years" reign (as written in Rev.20). Only then... will God's future Eternity of the new heavens and a new earth happen.
So here is an easy way to KNOW... that God's future new heavens and a new earth has not happened yet. IF... the wicked are not all cast into the "lake of fire", and Satan is not cast into the "lake of fire" yet, and death is not cast into that "lake of fire" yet, then we are still in this present world age.
Now the Amill folks believe all that will happen on the day of Christ's future return, but that is not written simply because Jesus gave the Rev.20 detail. They will try and use Scripture given PRIOR to Christ's Revelation about the wicked being destroyed, but don't fall into that trap, because Lord Jesus UPDATED those things with His Witness in His Book of Revelation, giving us more details.
And, significantly, do you know answer to the arguments a present. No wonder you are full of bitterness and frustration.