I think we should be wary of any effort to persuade us to ignore or excuse using a preferred contradictory narrative toward God's teachings and actions under his divine authority.
If we believe in God, I think it imperative we believe his words.
But first, you need to read those words, without putting your own violence-condoning spin on them.
Jesus lost his temper with the money changers. He even hand fashioned a weapon so to go after them.
That is not true. Jesus whipped the animals, not the human money-changers.
John 2
13 When it was almost time for the Jewish Passover,Jesus went up to Jerusalem.
14 In the temple courts he found people selling cattle, sheep and doves, and others sitting at tables exchanging money.
15 So he
made a whip out of cords, and drove all from the temple courts, both sheep and cattle; he scattered the coins of the money changers and overturned their tables.
16 To those who sold doves he said, “Get these out of here! Stop turning my Father’s houseinto a market!”
17 His disciples remembered that it is written: “Zeal for your house will consume me.”
Jesus lost his temper with the Saducee's and Pharisees who put him on trial. Calling them ones who were of their father the Devil and such.
Jesus never lost his temper, like some carnal person without self-control. He expressed anger at the religious leaders by speaking harshly to them. But there is no record of Jesus being physically violent toward any person.
Jesus experienced violence on the cross. He did not inflict violence on people.
You are inventing a very different, false Jesus, which Paul warned us about in very stern terms.
2 Corinthians 11:4
For if the one who comes proclaims another Jesus whom we have not proclaimed, or you receive a different spirit which you did not receive, or a different gospel which you did not accept, you put up with
it well
enough!
Galatians 1
7 Which is not another; but there be some that trouble you, and would pervert the gospel of Christ.
8 But though we, or an angel from heaven, preach any other gospel unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed.
9 As we said before, so say I now again, if any man preach any other gospel unto you than that ye have received, let him be accursed.