Certainly there are differences in doctrine between churches that are periphery to what really matters which are salvational. And arguing or debating over those issues are quite frankly a waste of both people's time and effort. However, there are issues such as the original discussion on this thread as to the identity and nature of Jesus. Who we worship, even though we may profess the same name, may be very different. In Paul's day he roundly rebuked certain groups who all professed to be Christians, used the name of Jesus, would speak of the cross, atonement, good works, all the things that we speak of today, yet Paul said clearly they were talking about a different Jesus, and thus a different gospel. A different Jesus than that which is revealed in scripture, cannot save let alone within the context of a wrong gospel. So we must be assured of the Jesus we hope in right, I'm sure you would agree. Now I am not suggesting that the person may not in the end be saved, but right now, when Jesus prayed "this is eternal life, that they may know thee, the only true God, and Jesus Christ Whom Thou did send", He is speaking of relational intimacy, and eternal life depended on that relaionship...as Jesus said elsewhere of those who did claim to know God, "depart from Me, I never knew you". There are many different thoughts on this forum as to who Jesus is. All may say He is the Son of God, but that means different things to different people.
There's a vast difference between what that means for example between what Mormons teach as Son, than Jehovahs Witnesses, and another difference between either of them and myself. We cannot all be right. Some of us are worshipping the wrong Jesus. The JW Jesus teach he was a created being. Catholics have their version, saying that the Son is eternally begotten, whatever that means. The LDS teach he was the offspring of a sexual relationship between God and one of His wives, as was Lucifer, making Jesus and Lucifer brothers. I believe the Jesus I worship was a literal Son, brought forth of the Father at same time in eternity, but the scriptures don't explain how, there is no mention of a mother, and nor do I attempt to do so. Traditional trinity theology teaches that Jesus is a Son, but was always for all eternity a Son, which to my mind is contradictory to everything we know about being begotten, which comes from the Greek word monogenes, which in all instances I am aware of, refers to the bringing forth of a child, a child which is unique in that it is the only one. It has never meant just one of a kind without having reference also to a specific child.
All I'm saying is, that we need to keep to scripture and not our individual church's traditional teachings, extraneous books and authorities that claim equality to scripture, and ideas that cannot be substantiated by scripture. The Jesus we worship had better be the real one.
You would do well in with the JW's friend as your belief in Jesus is right there with them. (somehow the LORD was begotten/created).
You said: I believe the Jesus I worship was a literal Son, brought forth of the Father at same time in eternity, but the scriptures don't explain how, there is no mention of a mother, and nor do I attempt to do so. Traditional trinity theology teaches that Jesus is a Son, but was always for all eternity a Son, which to my mind is contradictory to everything we know about being begotten.
This is a common error where you confuse the Son coming in the flesh with the Eternal Son and try to make sennse of the two by not separating the two as Scripture clearly does from the Beginning.
Start in the Beginning of TRUTH - "In the beginning was the Word and the Word was with God and the Word was God" - John 1:1
Genesis - "Let Us make man in Our Image according to Our Likeness".
Without the THIRD PERSON of the Godhead - the Holy Spirit - we cannot understand the Scriptures and this is why so much confusion as men seek to rely on logic and their own intellectual abilities, which begets all the religions.
So you end up with the only begotten son of JW's, of RCC, of Mormonism, and so and so....it never seems to end as men seek their own.
The Bible is a children' book written for His Children and without faith no one can please God =
faith in His Word,
what HE says and not man.
This is why God gave to us a Eternal Commandment that we must follow to know Him -
ALL must follow this:
Hear now, O Israel, the statutes and ordinances I am teaching you to follow, so that you may live and may enter and take possession of the land that the LORD, the God of your fathers, is giving you.
You must not add to or subtract from what I command you, so that you may keep the commandments of the LORD your God that I am giving you.
Deuteronomy 4:1-2
Every word of God is flawless;
He is a shield to those who take refuge in Him.
Do not add to His words,
lest He rebuke you and prove you a liar.
Proverbs 30:5-6
I testify to everyone who hears the words of prophecy in this book:
If anyone adds to them, God will add to him the plagues described in this book. And
if anyone takes away from the words of this book of prophecy, God will take away his share in the tree of life and the holy city, which are described in this book.
Revelation 22:18-19
All doctrinal error comes from adding to and taking away from God's words thru pride - SEE satan in the Garden "Did God really say..."