Of course it grieves me to see my family going through this, but my feelings do not make God's actions unjust. Look at it from God's point of view; a creation he made perfect was warned of the exact consequence of its actions, and then chose to defy God anyways. God is merely fulfilling His promise. He does not owe salvation to anyone, and would be perfectly just letting us all die in sin and burn in hell. However, in order to display the richness of His mercy, He chose to save some for reasons we do not know. Give me one good reason why my family member deserves to be saved? There are none. No one deserves to be saved. Give me one good reason why they deserve to be cast into hell? There are many, many reasons, but the chief would be the rebellion all men have against God.
Why pray for him? Because God commands me to do so. Will it have any effect? Of course! God promises to listen to the prayers of His people. I pray for him because God commands me to do so, and this is enough reason for me and should be enough reason for anyone else who claims to believe in Christ
God is not unjust but Calvinism is most assuredly unjust.
Adam and Eve defied God, but you want to condemn everyone for what they did and try to call it just.
We inherited sin because of them but God gave us a way out. Not some of us, but all of us.
God never owed anyone salvation. But in his will he wants everyone to have it.
No one deserves salvation, but he loved everyone so much he sent the second person of the Trinity to incarnate in flesh and pay the sum price for those who would accept it. Accept in free well.
In no, by your formula prayer is an exercise in futility. God determined for creation who would be saved and who would be damned.
So you think you are one of the chosen. By your own definition of humanity you do not know that.
Your God is unjust, unloving, hypocrite, narcissist, vile and worse.
He is a puppetmaster you think we are his puppets.
The gospel is an exercise in futility since it is based on free well which you say is a lie.
Our lives are a farce by your beliefs. God could have simply created us in heaven and hell.
The White throne judgment is meaningless. An exercise in futility.