The key-word here is discernment. Love people, yes, but trust God alone. Compared to God, we are to, "hate all others, including ourselves." He alone is good. It is not without cause that God refers to His word as, "a hammer."
Jesus said that in order to follow Him, one must deny self, take up their cross, and follow Him. He also said that unless one takes up their cross and follows Him, they are not worthy of Him. "For whoever wants to save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it." Matthew 16:25 BSB " "There I will give her back her vineyards and will make the valley of Achor a door of hope." Hosea 2:15a NIV
Discernment.. like dividing bone and marrow?
To decipher, to pull apart, to see through..
Bible probably has better descriptions than mine.
Key word discernment:
HAHA this ones funny:
2Sa 19:35
I
am this day fourscore years old:
and can I discern between good and evil? can thy servant taste what I eat or what I drink? can I hear any more the voice of singing men and singing women? wherefore then should thy servant be yet a burden unto my lord the king?
probably out of context but funny nonetheless haha.
I have to go see:
2Sa 19:31
And Barzillai the Gileadite came down from Rogelim, and went over Jordan with the king, to conduct him over Jordan.
2Sa 19:32
Now Barzillai was a very aged man,
even fourscore years old: and he had provided the king of sustenance while he lay at Mahanaim; for he
was a very great man.
2Sa 19:33
And the king said unto Barzillai, Come thou over with me, and I will feed thee with me in Jerusalem.
2Sa 19:34
And Barzillai said unto the king, How long have I to live, that I should go up with the king unto Jerusalem?
So here is this guy who has been the king's servant most his life. And he's getting old. And the king wants to bring him back to the kingdom.
He's like... Look, what more do you want from me? I'm old cant ya see that?
HAHAHA...
That's the "tone" I hear anyways

sorry..
discernment:
Ah Mercy me..
Jon 4:11
And should not I spare Nineveh, that great city, wherein are more than sixscore thousand persons that cannot discern between their right hand and their left hand; and
also much cattle?
Mal 3:18
Then shall ye return, and discern between the righteous and the wicked, between him that serveth God and him that serveth him not.
Mal 3:5
And I will come near to you to judgment; and I will be a swift witness against the sorcerers, and against the adulterers, and against false swearers, and against those that oppress the hireling in
his wages, the widow, and the fatherless, and that turn aside the stranger
from his right, and fear not me, saith the LORD of hosts.
We are to hate all others.. hmm
Going to be pretty lonely in heaven if everybody is hating everybody, dont ya think?
How can you Love God and hate yourself if God is hanging with ya, in your heart, and in your mind, and in your own soul?
How can you hate the ones God loves?
And are you able to discern whom God has chosen to love and to hate?
Are you God?
Ofcourse not.
None of us are God.
But each of us has God in us, guiding us, loving us.
The ones we have to "hate" or let's say leave behind, are those that do not walk in love.
Their heart is attached to this world. The things that keep us seperate from the Love of God.
You know the list, envy, strife, lust..hold on..
These guys:
Rom 1:29
Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,
Rom 1:30
Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
Rom 1:31
Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:
And about this hammer...
Jer 23:29
Is not my word like as a fire? saith the LORD; and like a hammer
that breaketh the rock in pieces?
oh there's that rock again you mentioned earlier.
The one about falling on it rather than having it fall on your head.
So let's assume you have the ability to discern what is in people's hearts and minds.
Are you then going to go around hitting everyone over the head with the hammer, because you can't see
what you think you should see in other people's hearts?
Have you become the judge of hearts?
Are you able to rule the gavel with love and mercy?
Brother, taking up one's cross is between that person and God alone.
You can't make someone take it up or put it down.
The thing is to take up your own cross, lay aside the hate.
Learn to love and walk in his righteousness.
Let his love flow through you.
Jesus says, if you hate your brother without a cause, then you might as well have committed murder.
And you know and I know the Bible says, there aint no murderers getting into heaven.
I try to listen and hear the tone of your thoughts.
What your writing is like speaking with your heart and mind.
What I hear, and I could be wrong,
But I hear a lot of anger. a lot of mistrust.
And you want to control how others think and what they say,
But it's not in your power to do that.
You can't hammer someone enough to change.
And what if the one your hammering is innocent of how you perceive them to be?
Here:
Mat 7:2
For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
Mat 7:3
And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother's eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
Mat 7:4
Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam
is in thine own eye?
Perhaps instead of clobering people with hammers you may try praying for them,
if you feel they need praying for.
Everyone can use a prayer or two, I promise.
Mat 17:15
Lord, have mercy on my son: for he is lunatick, and sore vexed: for ofttimes he falleth into the fire, and oft into the water.
Some may think I'm a lunatick, I fall into some discussions and wish I kept my thoughts to myself.
Sometimes the blowback is hot as hell, and other times cold as ice.
I ask God to have mercy on me and please forgive me.
And a prayer or two from my brother's and sister's could'nt hurt.
That's for sure.
Nobody's perfect. We all have our own quirks. Everybody speaks in different tones.
That my friend is something worth learning how to discern.
It's not always what they say, but how they say it that matters.
And I hear you.
And I think I understand where your coming from
I'm a bit concerned of where your heading to....
And I don't hold the hammer. And I am not the judge.
Sometimes my patience waivers,but I never hold a grudge
What the world needs now is not more hate
What the world needs now is love sweet love.
B