Sorry to burst your bubble, but I shared some of your posts with my family and Christian friends and they had no arguments against narcissist and they also added 'self promoter' along with 'self righteous.' The truth hurts, but sometimes people really need to hear it.
Okay. First off, I never boasted in myself or my own personal works or how I am great (Which is what a narcissist would do). I have stated many times that I am nothing and Christ is everything (and I actually believe that with all my heart).
That’s the opposite of self promotion.
So you are still falsely accusing me of being a narcissist.
Second, no offense, I love you, your family and your friends in the name of Jesus Christ, but they have not likely researched at length what a narcissist actually is. I say this because when I read various articles on narcissists (as I have done in the past several times before), they do not give such a simplistic definition.
According to one article:
“Narcissists believe that they're better than everyone else and expect recognition as such.
They will often exaggerate or outright lie about their achievements and talents. And when they talk about work or relationships, all you'll hear is how much they contribute, how great they are, and how lucky the people in their lives are to have them. They are the undisputed star and everyone else is at best a bit player.”
Source:
Narcissism involves self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, and a lack of empathy. These tips can help you recognize and cope with a narcissist.
www.helpguide.org
Please show me where I have done this on the forums. If not, you are falsely accusing me.
I also find lying to be a sin that would condemn my soul. So why would I do that?
Where on the forums have I uplifted myself as the star and everyone else is a bit player?
As far as I can recall, my promotion is God’s Holy Word and Jesus Christ.
According to the article:
“A narcissist's sense of superiority is like a balloon that gradually loses air without a steady stream of applause and recognition to keep it inflated. The occasional compliment is not enough. Narcissists need constant food for their ego, so they surround themselves with people who are willing to cater to their obsessive craving for affirmation. These relationships are very one-sided. It's all about what the admirer can do for the narcissist, never the other way around.”
Source:
Narcissism involves self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, and a lack of empathy. These tips can help you recognize and cope with a narcissist.
www.helpguide.org
Okay. Where on the forums did I seek for people to give me recognition or to give me compliments? If you cannot find anything, then you are falsely accusing me.
According to the article:
”Narcissists never develop the ability to identify with the feelings of others—to put themselves in other people's shoes. In other words, they lack empathy. In many ways, they view the people in their lives as objects—there to serve their needs. As a consequence, they don't think twice about taking advantage of others to achieve their own ends.”
Source:
Narcissism involves self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, and a lack of empathy. These tips can help you recognize and cope with a narcissist.
www.helpguide.org
Again, I cannot say this describes me because I do honestly think about the needs of other people think many times and I try to meet those needs with the love of Jesus Christ. So again, to say I am a narcissist is an insult and a false accusation.
In fact, the article mentions how there are different types of narcissists; But the article addresses the a typical narcissist.
Three, I am not promoting myself, but I am promoting God’s Holy Word and what I believe it says. I again, realize that I am nothing and I cannot do anything without Jesus Christ (John 15:5). I plant, and another waters, but it is God that gives the increase. All glory and praise should go to the Lord Jesus Christ and never to me or any other created human being. I also do not believe in self righteousness as if it is my own personal righteousness separate from the LORD. I believe only God is good, and that any good a believer does, it is God doing the good work through them. So all praise should go to the LORD Jesus. It’s why the 24 elders cast their crowns down before Jesus Christ. Works are only needed as a part of salvation (After we are saved by God’s grace) because that is what God’s Word plainly teaches. It has nothing to do with me. I did not write the Bible. God did. Let all that has breath, praise the Lord for His good ways that He teaches us.
Four, your family and friends like you and so they are not unbiased and they are likely to defend you (So as not to cause any disagreement). If you really want to get an unbiased viewpoint, send my writings to professionals who know human behavior and who do not believe as you do and they have no friendly relationship with you. An unbiased viewpoint will help you to see better. But again, I challenge you to find where I promoted myself continually outside of Jesus Christ. This you will not find. So to say I promote myself is simply a false accusation. My focus is God’s Word.
Your writings speak for themselves alright. No false accusations on my part. Just solid rebuke.
Again, if you cannot point out exactly where in my posts to support your false accusation, then it is simply a hollow claim.
Where did I say I was a prophet?
Where did I predict the future outside of what the Bible says?
I actually believe the Bible alone is sufficient for prophecy.
I don’t believe the gift of prophecy in the church has continued (But I don’t want to make a blanket ban on all Christians and condemn myself. So I do leave room that I could be wrong). But I prefer to stick only with the Bible as my source for prophecy or understanding future events. But my focus is not really Eschatology. My focus in life is to glorify God’s grace to others in this life and to lead them to obey the good ways of the LORD (to glorify Christ and not myself).
You can find Protestants who are saved and Protestants who are not saved, just as you can find saved and unsaved people in various other churches. People who appear to know Jesus by calling Him Lord, Lord, (yet Jesus NEVER knew them) are "nominal" Christians and not genuine Christians. Pseudo Christians outnumber genuine Christians by far.
Again, if what you say is true, then no works or holy living should play a part in salvation if they are not required for salvation (Otherwise it would be salvation by works). Even if you claim that a change in a Christian’s life (doing good works, and not practicing sin) is not salvific in and of themselves alone, and it is faith only in Jesus that saves, it would not be a consistent model that works or makes any sense. If a change is a requirement of a true genuine Christian, then that change is a part of salvation. You have to promote that change as a part of salvation. If not, then… you are going against the change in a backhanded way and double speaking. But of course we had this discussion many times before and you don’t seem to understand that your belief here is a contradiction.
Just because a believer is not sinless, without fault or defect, flawless 100% of the time (exactly like Jesus) does not mean they are abiding in sin/promoting a license to sin/living like the devil etc.. as you would make it appear.
Yes it is a promotion of sin. Because if you are wrong on your interpretation on 1 John 1:8, then you would be turning God’s grace into a license to sin. It only took one sin to separate Adam from God and for the fall of mankind to happen. To say you must sin again because of 1 John 1:8 is turning God’s grace into a license to sin. Even the context of 1 John 1:8 does not support your viewpoint. If it did, then John would talk about how we believers cannot help but to be controlled by our sin nature at times our whole life, and how we must admit to others this sin nature will be with us until death (or how we must sin again occasionally) or we are in deception. But that’s not what John is saying in context. John tells us to “sin not” (1 John 2:1), which would be an impossibility in your belief.
None of us are 100% obedient to God 100% of the time which does not mean that disobedience to God is part of salvation. You seem to have more faith in your so called personal obedience to God for salvation than you do in the death, burial and resurrection of Christ for salvation. You continue to trust in self and still don't believe the gospel. (Romans 1:16; 1 Corinthians 15:1-4)
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Again, it’s not about trust in myself. I believe God does the good work through me and any good done in my life I seek to give Him the praise and glory and not myself. It’s all about the LORD and not me. I did not write the Bible. Again, Galatians 6:8-9 says that we must sow to the Spirit to reap everlasting life. This sowing to the Spirit is well doing. If we are not sowing to the Spirit in well doing, we are not going to make it into the Kingdom. It’s just that simple. But Galatians 6:8-9 is not a popular passage to preach among Belief Alone Salvationists these days.