ERROR - Soundness of doctrine does NOT come out from forming opinions but from every word of God.
Take this thread for example, the reason so many are confused about tongues is because none bother to examine the meaning of what it is, reason why God gave this phenomenon to the church of Corinth only, and what was God's purpose?
Note 1 Corinthians 1:1: "Unto the church of God which is at Corinth, to them that are sanctified in Christ Jesus, called to be saints,
with all that in every place call upon the name of Jesus Christ our Lord, both their's and our's"
Therefore, Paul's letter and the contents were to be distributed to all the churches, not just the Corinthians. It was that it was reported to Paul through a letter from C

e's household that there were problems with the disruptive use of tongues in the fellowship meetings. Your statement about tongues in the quote is your personal opinion not based on anything in the Scripture at all.
Reminds me when Jesus came to earth to the Nation of Israel and told them He was the Messiah and no one believed Him, just as no one believes a true believer when he comes with the truth!.
Such as when one points out all the things that Paul taught about tongues, and the opposers of tongues won't accept them, but cherry picks verses and ignores others to support their own non-Scriptural opinions.
The truth of 1 Corinthians Chapter 14 is this:... and, READ MY LIPS!
Note that the Bible was not yet complete when Paul, under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, wrote 1 Corinthians 14, BECAUSE God still had additional revelation (verse 6) for mankind, by giving the gift of a heavenly language called tongues to an individual in a church setting for edification, and to another the gift of interpretation. And, if no interpreter, the one who received the information from God is to remain silent.
Case in point. You are ignoring Paul's words: "I thank God I speak in tongues more than you all,
however in the church, I would rather speak words that people can understand." To limit the speaking tongues to fellowship meetings is ignoring the basic rules of comprehension 101,
Paul however; says not to forbid to speak in tongues, but continued to say, it is better to speak five words that the church may be edified than speak ten thousand words in an unknown tongue.
Anyone with basic comprehension skills will see that Paul is distinguishing personal prayer in tongues privately before God, and the use of tongues along with interpretation in the church. Opposition to tongues has been so much drummed into some to such a degree that they refuse to consider Paul's clear statements about tongues being directly primarily to God and the speaking in tongues not for interpretation the people should speak to themselves and to God, and the appropriate place is private prayer. This coincides with Jesus saying that when we pray we go into a private prayer room and pray to God in secret. That's where Paul went when he spoke in tongues more than them all, and he encouraged the Corinthians to keep their speaking of tongues for private prayer and sought to use the gift of prophecy in the fellowship meetings.
But it won't matter how many times this is said on these threads about tongues, the opposers of the gift will persist in ignoring Paul clear comments and plain language, and maintain their own prejudice against the modern use of tongues.
The above is a very short explanation or a guide if you will. The rest of the chapter is self explanatory but if anyone is still confused then let us reason together.
BTW, speaking in tongues is impossible to day as the Bible is closed and complete!
To God Be The Glory
The false teaching that the spiritual gifts ceased when the Bible became complete was not known or taught before the 19th Century. I read Calvin's commentary on 1 Corinthians 14, and he never mentions the closed canon of Scripture. Being the astute theologian he was, you would think he would say that the completed Bible meant the cessation of the spiritual gifts, including tongues, but he doesn't.
You say that we must comply with God's Word, but your statement about the impossibility of speaking in tongues is not based on any Scripture at all! The Scripture does say that the gifts will cease, and Calvin, a much better Bible teacher than you or me, maintained that they are there to compensate for our weakness, and when death occurs, our weakness will go as well, so the gifts will no longer be needed, and the final consummation will happen on Judgment Day. What Calvin is saying is that the gifts will finally cease when Jesus comes again and the Church Age will be over. He never mentions the closed canon of Scripture as a reason for the cessation of the gifts.
What he actually says is that the proof of a person's calling to the ministry is the manifestation of the gifts in his ministry. So, a minister who never has the spiritual gifts manifesting through his ministry cannot prove that he is genuinely called of God. Given the total absence of any spiritual gifts manifested through multitudes of church preachers, pastors, and ministers, one has to wonder which pastor, preacher, or minister is genuinely called of God, or whether most are doing it because they decided all on their own and without the Holy Spirit! That could explain the deadness of many churches.