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This thread is for building a case in support of biblical patriarchy and against feminism.

A large majority of women were not in support of the first wave of feminism. The anti-sufragette movement was a much larger group than the sufragettes

Feminism was not a grass-roots movement of oppressed housewives but rather an occult-influenced top-down movement funded by millionaires and pushed by elite members of society. (I highly recommend the book Occult Feminism by Rachel Wilson for more on this topic)

In this thread, I want to address

* how feminism gave way to more abuse of women
*how women are not happier with feminist influence
*why biblical patriarchy is better
*women against Feminism including former feminists and feminists themselves
*what things were really like for women before Feminism. (What could they do?)
*how feminism has made society worse

My dear sister, you have indeed plumbs some of the depths that most others never dare to swim.

Keep up the good work.

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There's a great description of patriarchy in the above discussion at about 2:04:00. Two hours four minute mark.

Patriarchy, simply put, just means father rule. People love to attack men, patriarchy. and capitalism without assessing all the societal benefits they get from both.

I see patriarchy as a good thing because it makes men use their strength for the benefit of those around them and use their superior strength responsibly. I don't want to live in a world without it---as we now see women getting beat up by transgender individuals in what used to be women's sports.

Edit: The link does lead to the video. Yay!
 
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There's a great description of patriarchy in the above discussion at about 2:04:00. Two hours four minute mark.

Patriarchy, simply put, just means father rule.
But that's just it. There's a difference between what the root of the word means and what the system is all about.
People love to attack men, patriarchy. and capitalism without assessing all the societal benefits they get from both.
Well, if "people" love to attack men, patriarchy and capitalism that means that both men and women do this. Not only "feminist" women.

Interesting that you don't seem to get that feminism isn't about creating a matriarchy, but a more egalitarian society. Or that capitalism isn't ONLY related to patriarchy. After all, it was feminism that fought for (and WON) *YOUR* right to get a credit card in YOUR name without a man's approval.

You're also ignoring that while under patriarchy, women were largely dismissed from their contributions to society. There was a point in time in the US, that if a woman created something that was patented, the patent was registered under her husband's name; not her own.

I see patriarchy as a good thing because it makes men use their strength for the benefit of those around them and use their superior strength responsibly.
Ohfercryinoutloud. You act as if ALL men would do that! What do you see as "strength" in the first place? PHYSICAL strength? Do you really believe that ALL men use their physical strength "responsibly"?
I don't want to live in a world without it---as we now see women getting beat up by transgender individuals in what used to be women's sports.

Edit: I can't seem to post the video. Looking into why now.
Let me remind you that your beloved 'patriarchy' didn't even WANT a woman participating in sports AT ALL because it was believed (supposedly) that IF a woman participated in sports it would upset the 'delicate balance' of her reproductive capabilities.

Big fat eyeroll.
 

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Here is an excerpt from an article called The Paradox of the Declining Happiness of Women.

"By many objective measures the lives of women in the United States have improved over the
past 35 years, yet we show that measures of subjective well‐being indicate that women’s happiness
has declined both absolutely and relative to men. The paradox of women’s declining relative well‐
being is found across various datasets, measures of subjective well‐being, and is pervasive across
demographic groups and industrialized countries. Relative declines in female happiness have eroded a
gender gap in happiness in which women in the 1970s typically reported higher subjective well‐being
than did men. These declines have continued and a new gender gap is emerging—one with higher
subjective well‐being for men."
Happy ?
Why should people be happy ?
Would a more mature possition be content ?

If one is seeking to be happy, what does one do ? Take drugs to mask or drink like a fool to mask ?

Ok one has an issue lets just say, now why is such an issue ?

Look at any brat and see how they go into some rage to get what they want ? but is that what they truly need ?

Then issues of another standing over one ? but why is that, maybe for ones own good in some way or it's just they who are the moron ?
Such may come down to wants ? that are ego related etc, obssesions ? to young or just imature regardless of ones age !

But one who is content is what ? Matured to understand that their is more to live than self indulgances. one can be happy to see others do well and also see others fall and understand that life is learning that failing is or can be a great learning that will give one foundations to build one with more strength than one had before.

I could go back and see that I did something stupid once and That was not good at the time for me at all ! but it has given me so much understanding of not only myself but also much about others, I see that such was a blessing to me now truly, because I learned so much from it all totaly.
That now I can sort of laugh at them all, for they do not understand ? but do they truly want to understand or just make light of such as a simple fool would, so I look such as just ignorant fools, for they are not truly grounded. Are they real friends or worthy or fickel simple minded people ?
Most people will like to play you, be they even family for their own ends ! so one has to stand up to such ! or you will lend yourself to their abuse of you ? because once the abuse kickes off it's harder to stop.

So when I was working for my dad, I look back and think, I should of held him and my elder brother up on some points and said don't try and use me as a sh1t rag buster ! I am not your nigger Slave to be just used and abused with no regard !
But that damage has been done, and nothing can be fixed about it, as it's Held solid ! so the total trust is not their with such people even now ! not that I do not love them, but I truly know what they are like in fact. not everything about such people are crap, but just as with friends their is always somthing you do not like about them or do not love say, but they are good to be with !

So if we are seeking to be Happy, I think that's a foolish possition. because there is a lot more to it than just that.
But in reality people who are shallow are in fact a pain !

When it comes to woman and Men, the years gone by men were pigs in general, in that they did not hold or Value women, nor other men in to much regard ? It showed in general ! But nowadays I would say that the Pendulum has only swung from one Ignorance to another type of ignorance, That the general public are just shallow and played for fools in fact ! in thinking that they are the bees knees ? when it's all truly about demands ! Nothing to do with Grace at all !
 

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This is just not true. Women have always been able to work and be educated. This post is just another attack on patriarchal marriage and families.

The difference now is that because of feminism, working outside the home as a woman is now seen as a privilege and status symbol instead of an unfortunate hardship.

The government loves feminism because now they can tax double the population.

Also, I don't see men actively preventing women from having options. Men are the ones that have allowed feminist ideas to become the norm. This is a ridiculous lie to make us feel like victims of patriarchy.
 

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Nope. But I'm sure aware of what goes on in it.

Such as people who make sweeping generalizations about groups of people because of the behavior of a few.
Rather odd you bring this up . Why herein is a huge hyprocrisy .
HOW SO .
cause many lump men like me WHO CLIAM THE BIBLE TO BE INSPIRED OF GOD
right into dimwits and bad examples of people WHO MIGHT say THE BIBLE IS INSPIRED OF GOD
But they darn sure DONT HEED THE GOD WHO INSPIRED THEM WORDS
in that bible . I see me lots of hyprocrisy in these last hours .
EVERYTHING hollering against patriarchy this or that
and many other like things do even THE SOLD OUT CONSERVATIVE NAR REALM DOES to its own peoples as well .
WE GOTS US a serious delusion and a massive problem in the house .
Wanna know what it is . BOTH SIDES BEEN HEAVILY infected with that which is of anti christ
and at best all they can do is maybe expose a few sins of the other side
BUT CANNOT SEE their own sins and errors which are as a FAT OL ARK in their eyes .
GEt it . i said ark cause it was made of wood and MAN was it very big too .
ITS BIBLE TIME for EVERYONE . time to learn for ourselves what these leaders REFUSE TO DO . THE TRUTH .
 
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A lot of women seek control out of fear. It takes strength and wisdom to admit that control is an illusion but true strength is found in trusting Almighty God.
My dear sister wynona has arrived .
And how am i so strongly unctioned to remind us all of something .
I want you to visualize
try and imagine this being done BY WOMEN of GOD who sat in those houses
wherein paul and others had preached the word of GOD unto .
Now visualize this and i say this for a real good reason .
Visualize them dear ladies of GOD who were a massive help to the church and others
EVER ONCE telling paul , peter , barnabas , john , or any other
HEY BUDDIES we gonna set up a room WHERE ONLY WOMEN ARE ALLOWED and NOT MEN .
WHY o why was i SO LED to warn us of this reminder today .
WHY are such places being set up wherein a man cannot enter into such places
and if he do , HE ISBANNED . I would like you to show me
or anyone else for that matter
WHERE SUCH A THING would ever have been done or allowed by the apostels , let alone
WHERE any true women of GOD would have even dared to do such a thing .
THIS IS NOT to condmen anyone . WE all slip up at times . BUT IT IS TO WARN US that this Should not be done .
 
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This is just not true. Women have always been able to work and be educated. This post is just another attack on patriarchal marriage and families.
Not true.
The difference now is that because of feminism, working outside the home as a woman is now seen as a privilege and status symbol instead of an unfortunate hardship.
Working outside the home is seen as a necessity and a desire to contribute to society in a way other than through that of a mother/homemaker.
The government loves feminism because now they can tax double the population.
So?
Also, I don't see men actively preventing women from having options. Men are the ones that have allowed feminist ideas to become the norm. This is a ridiculous lie to make us feel like victims of patriarchy.
Feminist ideas (e.g. higher education for women in the same subjects as men) becoming the norm never should have been something that men got to "allow" for women in the first place. There was a point when women were not allowed to pursue degrees in fields such as law, medicine or Theology. And even when the few women were allowed, they were refused their degree by the academic institutions. Wasn't until the mid-1800's when things began to (slowly) change.

Even here in 2025, while women in the US are allowed access to more educational avenues, they can still face obstacles that hinder their success...especially if they enter any of the STEM fields. Women report that while they go into the STEM fields in school, they're often taunted and harassed by the men in their classes. So, even though the laws have changed, it doesn't mean that EVERYONE'S attitudes have changed.
 
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A lot of women seek control out of fear. It takes strength and wisdom to admit that control is an illusion but true strength is found in trusting Almighty God.
Good point !

I see on TV a lot of brainwashing is done on programs, one is about the history or blood line of some person on the Show, They look for some person or persons in the past they are related to.
So then looking back along the Line, they find people who They say were a Strong woman ? but never ever would say one was a strong man ?
So I wonder what it is that they are trying to truly promote ?
Ok fair enough I say, fine a woman does display fine talents or such ? but to play on the topic of Strong woman ? I think this is not truly representing the woman truly at all ? As it's just a display ! so as to try and make woman nowadays want to be a self indulged bigot type or dictator loonie nut case ? that is truly lost ! much like Hitlers Nazis type of nut cases all set on one issue and that's it.
You get such with Communist women as well, I know such that were my mums friends, they were Nuts ! rude and rough as guts, Killers as well ! and one mind set, united morons and pigs !

Their are men like that Ilk as well simplistic shallow fools who display ignorance in spades ! That is all they are Ignorance !

One builder mate of mine with his 3 wifes that I seen of him, he was a outright bastard to the first 2 especially the 2ed and she was a fine woman, we got on real well. but his 3rd wife she is a hard working smart woman but greed has no bounds Like him !
That's their downfall in fact and why they make a mess of everything as it comes back to bite them ! but they care not for anyone but themselves to get ahead, It's all or nothing !

So I think Strong woman Yes ? strong man yes ? but Idiots !

If they were to bother to look back at the mess that they caused all the people who they had dealings with regarding work ? Monster comes to mind !
They have no respect for anyone they didel, in fact only total hatred of the people who they duped, for they see such as idiots for falling for such !

So Strong ? I think such is a stupid word to use, it's not that of Grace that's for sure !

And many people who are wealthy are bastards for sure ! I worked for many of such, they were an abomination, not all ! as some are not fools like that at all and very bright with no intent Malice madness as they know many such people who try to climb up that way 24/7.

Funny how they say in the Show that, They now feel they have grown ? in knowing their family tree line, as if that is Them ?
I think come on ! you are you, Period !
Do not play the game of who you think you are ! That is the name of the Show, Who do you think you are !

Well I know my family Tree going back to 1230 or so and knew that from 6yo or so well, as my mum would point out such. OK but I know her mum and dad and my Dads mum, but I am Non of them ! I am Me !
Who they are has no bearing on me ! like who do I think I am ? I am Me !
I am not trying to be anyone of them ! I am not trying to be anyone, but Me ! and my mum is like I want you to be ?
To bad, for I do not give a rats what she thinks she wants me to be !
I say to her, I am content, with no regard for what others may think of me at all. for that is not an Issue ! If such is an issue to them, good on them !
I do not give a rats what people Think, I only care for what people know ! I am not on their treadmill to pander to their foolish egos.
Some may love to only try and put you down ? and get totaly enraged if they think I were of more wealth then they ? they will try and make sure you are not, if they have anything to do with it. My elder brother is like that full on !

Some people are of a Slave mentality as they will try every thing to keep others down in fact !
I seen that in droves with all of the Aboriginal people i know well from back in the 70's and on. they would get jellous if one got a Job ! and then work it, so they do not turn up on day 3 !

So who truly lifts people up ? not the Carnal that's for sure, nor the Religious ? nor the Government's in fact ! If they work towards such it's always a clown show.

So maybe one could say, She was a woman who was lifted up in the sight of God ! Now I would be blowen away by such as that claim, what an inspiration one would truly be !

It's not truly your standing in the comunity that people think you are that truly matters but that you yourself are yourself ! not what others think you are ? because Idolity is a curse !
 

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My dear sister wynona has arrived .
And how am i so strongly unctioned to remind us all of something .
I want you to visualize
try and imagine this being done BY WOMEN of GOD who sat in those houses
wherein paul and others had preached the word of GOD unto .
Now visualize this and i say this for a real good reason .
Visualize them dear ladies of GOD who were a massive help to the church and others
EVER ONCE telling paul , peter , barnabas , john , or any other
HEY BUDDIES we gonna set up a room WHERE ONLY WOMEN ARE ALLOWED and NOT MEN .
WHY o why was i SO LED to warn us of this reminder today .
WHY are such places being set up wherein a man cannot enter into such places
and if he do , HE ISBANNED . I would like you to show me
or anyone else for that matter
WHERE SUCH A THING would ever have been done or allowed by the apostels , let alone
WHERE any true women of GOD would have even dared to do such a thing .
THIS IS NOT to condmen anyone . WE all slip up at times . BUT IT IS TO WARN US that this Should not be done .
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I agree. I'm female and I also think banning certain Christians from being involved on a section of the forum just because they are the opposite sex is not good. Yeah folks may say, well we got the whole forum for us all to talk on. But let's remember, we are knocking out 50% of the members by doing this and I do believe we do all need each other in Christ. It was Eve that Satan first approached in the garden of Eden. Satan is crafty, he knew who to go to first. We need to stick to the biblical pattern. This is not like comparing a ladies bathroom. I've heard that said too. No, this is a Christian site. Not a toilet.
 
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