Sure thing Josho!, my pleasure.Thanks for the detailed responses.
Yes, we believe in proper marriage as found in God's word (especially Genesis 2), which is one natural man and one natural woman united together by God.What about things like marriage?
Commonly, though not Biblically, most don't care, or are ignorant of what the word of God says, and thus are ignorant (or willfully ignorant) of the actual doctrines taught. In truth, the Bible, as well as the SoP/ToJ, teach that two should not be married unless they are evenly yoked (2 Corinthians 6:14). Now people might point to the word "unbelievers" in that quote, but it goes deeper than most think. An unbeliever in scripture and in the SoP/ToJ is more than an outward denial of God/Christ (like an atheist would do). An unbeliever is anyone not grounded in present truth and faith, no matter their outward profession.What are the general views about SDAs marrying a Christian from a different denomination?
"... The Lord commanded ancient Israel not to intermarry with the idolatrous nations around them: “Neither shalt thou make marriages with them; thy daughter thou shalt not give unto his son, nor his daughter shalt thou take unto thy son.” The reason is given. Infinite Wisdom, foreseeing the result of such unions, declares: “For they will turn away thy son from following Me, that they may serve other gods: so will the anger of the Lord be kindled against you, and destroy thee suddenly.” “For thou art an holy people unto the Lord thy God: the Lord thy God hath chosen thee to be a special people unto Himself, above all people that are upon the face of the earth.” “Know therefore that the Lord thy God, He is God, the [page 120-121] faithful God, which keepeth covenant and mercy with them that love Him and keep His commandments to a thousand generations; and repayeth them that hate Him to their face, to destroy them: He will not be slack to him that hateth Him, He will repay him to his face.” Deuteronomy 7:3, 4, 6, 9, 10.
In the New Testament are similar prohibitions concerning the marriage of Christians with the ungodly. The apostle Paul, in his first letter to the Corinthians, declares: “The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.” 1 Corinthians 7:39. Again, in his second epistle, he writes: “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? and what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? and what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be My people. Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you, and will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be My sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.” 2 Corinthians 6:14-18.
My sister, dare you disregard these plain and positive directions? As a child of God, a subject of Christ's kingdom, the purchase of His blood, how can you connect yourself with one who does not acknowledge His claims, who is not controlled by His Spirit? The commands I have quoted are not the word of man, but of God. Though the companion of your choice were in all other respects worthy (which he is not), yet he has not accepted the truth for this time; he is an unbeliever, and you are forbidden of heaven to unite yourself with him. You cannot, without peril to your soul, disregard this divine injunction. ..." - Testimony Treasures, vol. 2, pages 120-121 - Testimony Treasures, vol. 2, Page 120 -- Ellen G. White Writings
In the New Testament are similar prohibitions concerning the marriage of Christians with the ungodly. The apostle Paul, in his first letter to the Corinthians, declares: “The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.” 1 Corinthians 7:39. Again, in his second epistle, he writes: “Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? and what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel? and what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be My people. Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you, and will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be My sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.” 2 Corinthians 6:14-18.
My sister, dare you disregard these plain and positive directions? As a child of God, a subject of Christ's kingdom, the purchase of His blood, how can you connect yourself with one who does not acknowledge His claims, who is not controlled by His Spirit? The commands I have quoted are not the word of man, but of God. Though the companion of your choice were in all other respects worthy (which he is not), yet he has not accepted the truth for this time; he is an unbeliever, and you are forbidden of heaven to unite yourself with him. You cannot, without peril to your soul, disregard this divine injunction. ..." - Testimony Treasures, vol. 2, pages 120-121 - Testimony Treasures, vol. 2, Page 120 -- Ellen G. White Writings
It is actually forbidden by God in scripture, and the SoP/ToJ. It takes a long time to go through all that though, but if you want, we can. It just takes time.Is it widely accepted so long as the other person is a Christian or is it usually frowned upon?
Basically yes, but again, not everyone who says that they are Seventh-day Adventist are really Seventh-day Adventist, and thus one must be very careful even there. Marriage is not a thing to be entered into lightly or without prayerful consideration and God's approval with Godly counsel (based in scripture)Or are SDAs expected to marry SDAs?