I think in order to transcend our religion, we need to internalize Christian doctrines and orthodox teachings, process all that stuff, turning it from self-gratification to love and then we are ready to serve others because we realize that God loves us and we are able to love others.
Unfortunately, many people cling to the external parts of religion, superstitiously, and end up priding themselves on how well they know the Bible and how clever their theological understanding is; their faith stalls in the love of the external, which morphs into self-righteousness.
It is sort of like getting caught up in the details of tying your shoes rather than running a marathon. The only time the shoe tying portion of the exercise becomes an issue is if it is not done correctly, but no one is going to give you an award for tying your shoe.
Doctrine, Theology, reading the Bible, participating in the sacraments, are all forms of tying your shoe; loving God and others is running the marathon.