Why is there no men's forum?

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If they wanted a forum, @Kayla McCanny. They would ask for one, but based on what I have gathered from various male members, they don't really think it is necessary. It will just sit silent while they gather at more interactive threads....:Thumbsup:
 
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As a woman I would not advise another woman to speak of sensitive things on any online forum, cristian or not its not locked to public view, and as a woman I would not advise a woman to go spill her guts there.
I am willing to share my experiences in an anonymous way for the sake of other women. And they can contact me privately if they need to ....which is what happens from time to time. It isn't advised for women to "spill their guts" on a public forum.

And yet, there are plenty of women ...and men ....who speak openly on youtube and other places about their experiences. I don't condemn them.
 
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Are the men complaining?

It has absolutely nothing to do with men complaining or not. Its something observed as far as the topics are not (as a fact) for women only (which is the intent of the board). I am to that.


I could post the really serious subjects in the general forum and it would get overrun by men saying I'm a "liberal feminist making things up." I don't have time for that.

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I am willing to share my experiences in an anonymous way for the sake of other women. And they can contact me privately if they need to ....which is what happens from time to time. It isn't advised for women to "spill their guts" on a public forum.

And yet, there are plenty of women ...and men ....who speak openly on youtube and other places about their experiences. I don't condemn them.
And dont act as though I condemn you, I am stating merely what I observe, and stating my opinion as a woman on what I see on the womans board. That is apparently problematic.
 
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I used those words in quotes because that's exactly what was said to me many times by men on this forum. And no, I am not making up what I experienced.
 
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Wow what started out as nice and not wanting people to feel excluded some of you have turned into an argument. You should be ashamed of yourselves. Before you comment about something one should be considerate. I think a men's forum is not a bad idea. It seems to work other forums online. If you don't like it that is your preference. Some might like to and are intimated to say so because of these comments. I was just asking because I didn't want to exclude anyone, not for some of you to throw hissy fits at one another. This forum is about unity and equality. If you don't like something be civil about it or do not comment at all. I was asking a simple genuine question from observing as a newbie in this forum because other ones have them. That is all. Be considerate of one another.
 
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Anything I want to discuss with men only I'm not going to post on an internet forum.

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Perhaps we should all have a zoom meeting. A moderator with mute capabilities would surely be necessary, but it may be productive. At the very least it would be entertaining.
 

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Does anybody really want to see a forum where we men sit around, laugh at belching and farting, scratch where it itches, take a leak when we need to, talk about sports and sex in various permutations and combinations, and complain about our wives?
The wife left, you'll get no complaints from me.
 
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There was a lot of men on the forum who were rude, controlling, condescending, hateful, and verbally abusive in their posts to and about women. It was needed that women have a space to just discuss things calmly without being attacked. It is what it is.
Those weren't men, but I get where you are coming from.
 
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As an aside, I wouldn't mind separate rapture forums (pre, mid, post, etc.). Sometimes, it nice to discuss things with like-minded people without always getting attacked.
I happen to believe we are in the Little Season, do I get a thread all by myself?