Marriage is a picture of our relationship with Christ. Some marriages have no commitment, no faithfulness and no love carrying out marital duties like a robot. They really don't know each other and Christ will say the same thing to many. "Depart from Me, I never knew you". This "knowing" is an intimate knowing as in deep relationship. It is not knowing about you for God knows about all.Rach said:It's true there are many divorces in the Church today, but I do wonder if feminism is the highest cause of these divorces. I've wondered about the cause myself, and from what I've observed, I think people are just lazy. Things get hard, so they get out. They, neither of them, seem to understand that to 'love' your spouse is to commit to them no matter the circumstances. If it gets hard, you just need to commit and support even more.
As far as feminism....it's possibly the stupidest thing I've ever heard of (the movement...not your mentioning of it!). I'm all for equality...but let's face it....a truly biblical perspective brings 'equality' for women...sure we have different roles, but as equal image bearers of God, we have equal worth. Feminism doesn't seek equality, they seek a reversal of roles. They want to be boss, they want to be able to subjugate males, they want what often comes naturally to women...to take charge and have no one gainsay them. And you know what....I very much doubt even if they got that they would be happy.
But as a woman, I have to say that I love my place. I simply could not do some of the things my husband does, but then, he could not do some of the things I do. I love that the things I CAN do help and support him and make him happy and content to come home after a really hard days work. It's how God intended it to be...same worth, different roles. In the end, it's always better to go with how God designed it!!
Loving your wife more than yourself requires the cross laid out against your flesh life. Same thing with Jesus. So, we can conclude that a relationship with your spouse and with the Lord, take work. They take time (your time) and that requires you to turn away from your own pursuits and engage with your wife (and the Lord).
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