Sometimes it is difficult to be kind.
What exactly did the spirit say to those who have ears?
The adoption is mentioned exactly 5 times in the New Testament (and not at all in the LXX): Rom 8:15, 8:23, 9:4; Gal 4:5; Eph 1:5.
Will you please point to the verse that supports your claim?
That appears to be a philosophical argument, to be kind. Perhaps I do not follow you because I have been led to follow the Word. For example, the Word says this to me about the relationship between the Word and the Spirit:
"Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God." -- John 3:5 KJV
"It is the spirit that quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing: the words that I speak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life." -- John 6:63 KJV
"And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God:" -- Eph 6:17 KJV
"Seeing ye have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit unto unfeigned love of the brethren, see that ye love one another with a pure heart fervently: Being born again, not of corruptible seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God, which liveth and abideth for ever." -- 1Pet 1:22-23 KJV
"That which was from the beginning, which we have heard, which we have seen with our eyes, which we have looked upon, and our hands have handled, of the Word of life;" -- 1John 1:1 KJV
"And I saw heaven opened, and behold a white horse; and he that sat upon him was called Faithful and True, and in righteousness he doth judge and make war. His eyes were as a flame of fire, and on his head were many crowns; and he had a name written, that no man knew, but he himself. And he was clothed with a vesture dipped in blood: and his name is called The Word of God." -- Rev 19:11-13 KJV
Those authors seem to think the Word is important, and I am in no position to disagree. For that reason, when someone makes statements that I have neither seen nor heard with the implication they are from the scriptures, I am obliged to ask them where and how they derived them. I might learn something.
That said, I am still unconvinced you (or I) were "in Christ were before the foundation of the world". I am not saying you are wrong, I am simply saying that in my many years of bible study, I have not come across a single verse or passage that supports your statement. I was hoping you could provide the verse(s).
Rev