Tares Reveal Themselves by what they DON’T Say...And They Are With us Here .How to Identify Them...

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Addy

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These topics NEVER get resolved.... because of the two polar opposite points of view.

At least you seem willing to speak from your heart and listen @Ferris Bueller ... I do appreciate that.

Happy Sunday to you... Am off for a view of the lake.
 
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I've been hurt too. By all kinds of Christians all across the spectrum. But we can't hold grudges. If we do we're robbing them of the very grace we say they robbed us of. Christ is calling us to rise above it, to be different, to be like Him.....

If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Do not even tax collectors do the same? And if you greet only your brothers, what are you doing more than others? Do not even Gentiles do the same? Matthew 5:46-47
Yes, for people who have been hurt badly it can be very difficult or even impossible to forgive the instruments of those hurts...

"The place had been Ravensbruck and the man who was making his way forward had been a guard... one of the most cruel guards.

Now he was in front of me, hand thrust out: 'A fine message, Fräulein! How good it is to know that, as you say, all our sins are at the bottom of the sea!'

And I who had spoken so glibly of forgiveness, fumble in my pocketbook rather take that hand...

But I remembered him and the leather crop swinging from his belt. I was face-to-face with one of my captors and my blood seemed to freeze.

'You mentioned Ravensbruck in your talk,' he was saying, 'I was a guard there.' No, he did not remember me.


'But since that time I have become a Christian. I know that God has forgiven me for the cruel things I did there, but I would like to hear it from your lips as well, Fräulein,'... again the hand came out... 'will you forgive me?' " [from "Tramp for the Lord" by Corrie Ten Boom]

Corrie Ten Boom was a woman of God with great testimonies of what she went through in the way of pain, personal physical suffering, and the deaths of her father and beloved sister to the Nazis... How much would or could God expect from her? With God's help she made it through that and then also the meeting with this converted Nazi and yes even shaking his hand in forgiveness... And us?
 

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All of us Protestants know salvation is not earned by repenting of sin. But some don't know that you have to repent to be saved. You can't accept Christ and still have it in mind to continue in your old life. People who truly want to be saved hate their sin. They don't want to live in it anymore. The person who says they want to be saved and stay in their sin is a fake and a phony. You can't be saved without a change of mind about the sin that condemned you.



“The Spirit is willing, but the flesh is Weak....”
 

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"...what Bonhoffer calls "cheap grace" compared to "costly grace." Cheap grace essentially takes sin lightly. If sin is taken lightly, then the salvation which Jesus purchased is also cheap." - Josh Benner

Dietrich Bonhoeffer: cheap grace vs. costly grace | Josh Benner


I don’t give “ two hoots in Hell” about the opinions of Bonhoeffer ....nor yours either for that matter.... with all due respect.....

Just because I am more “ SON” Conscience than I am “SIN” Conscience , does NOT mean that I take Sin Lightly.....
 

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He wasn't using below the belt middle school humor to be mean and uncompassionate to the Judaizers/Legalists. Paul knows that they know the law, and that the law says that any man who's genitals have been crushed or cut off is not allowed into the Assembly.....

No man with crushed or severed genitals may enter the assembly of the LORD. Deuteronomy 23:1

He knows by their own law that if the circumcisers would go the whole way and cut off their penises (Galatians 5:12) they would be required by the law that they say must be followed to be cut off from the Assembly. And so their Judaistic, leavening influence in the church would end. So stop using Paul's words as an excuse to be mean and uncompasstionate toward legalists. Their influence in the church must end. But we are still to love them. Legalists are people too, you know. People Christ died for.


Christ also died for Hitler.....you want me to “ love “ him also? Legalist “ Fall From Grace”..... some teachers out there smarter than you or I say that means you are Damned.....maybe so, maybe not.....the jury is “out” on that one....

One thing the Jury is NOT “ out” on is this: If you “PREACH” a False, Perverted Gospel That says one must ADD to the Gospel Of Grace in violation of 1Cor15:1-4 to be Saved—you are “ Accursed” .........that’s just a polite way to say you are going to Hell....

Legalist, at the very LEAST “shipwreck” the Faith Of many....especially Newbies who are vulnerable to lousy , Confused Teaching.They Rob people Of their Assurance and Joy......and if “ Falling from Grace” means Damnation....You really got a Problem , don’t you? Go ahead and “love” those that could very well be going to Hell and taking countless others with them because in their Hearts , they really don’t Believe the Gospel That could have saved them.....that first half Of the Gospel..... That part that says “ Jesus died for your Sins?” .....they don’t believe it and they don’t allow others to believe.....

God does not love Tares.....He’s gonna have His Angels gather them up some day and “ lovingly” send them to Hell......I can’t “MAKE” myself Love Tares and/or Legalists ...
If that turns out to be a sin, I’ll do the same thing with that sin that God does—- put it on the Cross and “Remember it no more”.....

If you are correct in loving them and I am not, perhaps it’s just a case of you being a better Christian than me....just about anyone can accomplish “that”...... I can live with it....
 

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I promise you it's not phony. It occurred to me through these discussions lately how you boast of the grace and love and understanding and long suffering of the Lord in your own sin, but turn right around and rob that same love and compassion and understanding from the equally sinful legalist who has hurt you. Just saying, friend. Peace, bro. I'm just helping you out here.


Gee.....you’re “All Heart”..... If you want to “help out” somebody,
Peddle you “Air Of Superiority” to the Blind Guides( and your Soul- mates) that push “ Lucky Repentance” for Salvation.......please forgive my lack of “ Love and Compassion” for those that push “ Doctrines Of Demons” that spit on the Blood Of Christ .....they make me Sick and I’ve had the Holy Spirit in me for a LONG Time.....

Paul declared his “ loving” verdict in regard to these types long go.....”Cast them Out!”.....ain't that “ loving?” He didn’t even say “ hand them over to Satan for rebuke and Restoration” like the Guy who slept with his own Stepmother......

Seems like maybe they are just “ Tares” and they are without hope....
 

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@Blood Bought 1953 , can you tell us how one makes grace a license to sin and how that's different from your teaching that says God's grace covers any and all sins, even purposely sinning, no matter what, even the sin of going back to unbelief? Thanks. Appreciate it.
 
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I don’t give “ two hoots in Hell” about the opinions of Bonhoeffer ....nor yours either for that matter.... with all due respect.....

Just because I am more “ SON” Conscience than I am “SIN” Conscience , does NOT mean that I take Sin Lightly.....
Your teaching does take sin lightly. You say you can choose to purposely sin all you want, and even go back to unbelief and God's grace covers it so that you'll still go into the kingdom when Christ returns. I mean, except the sin of legalism, of course.
 

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Your actions speak so loud I can’t hear what you are saying....
You do not know anything about how I live, no more than I know anything about how you live. But I can see your character in how you post. But I do not know how you actually live.

Your main problem with this legalism thing, and why you are quick to label people legalists in forums is you don't have an accurate description and definition of a legalist.
 

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Christ also died for Hitler.....you want me to “ love “ him also?
Since you are neither in the military nor on a police force, you tell me.....

Love does no harm to a neighbor. Romans 13:10
Now don't try to think of some legalistic excuse of why you don't have to apply this to somebody like Hitler, lol.
 
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One thing the Jury is NOT “ out” on is this: If you “PREACH” a False, Perverted Gospel That says one must ADD to the Gospel Of Grace in violation of 1Cor15:1-4 to be Saved—you are “ Accursed” .........that’s just a polite way to say you are going to Hell....
No. Just as long as you believed some time in the past you're good, right? You said Christ died for ALL sins. And if you don't think so you're not resting in the gospel. You've been calling people legalists for saying Christ didn't die for all sins. So why is legalism the one exception?
 

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Legalist, at the very LEAST “shipwreck” the Faith Of many....especially Newbies who are vulnerable to lousy , Confused Teaching.
But that's also true of the person who says grace means "do what thou wilt". You're teaching is just on the opposite end of the spectrum as far as damnable gospels that lead nubes astray goes, that's all. Those who teach that are no different than a legalist in that regard.

...they mouth empty, boastful words and, by appealing to the lustful desires of the flesh, they entice people who are just escaping from those who live in error. 2 Peter 2:18-19
 

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God does not love Tares.
Yes, he does....

I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people— for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. This is good, and pleases God our Savior, who wants all people to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth. 1 Timothy 2:1-4
 

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If you are correct in loving them and I am not, perhaps it’s just a case of you being a better Christian than me....just about anyone can accomplish “that”.
No, only people who are growing up into an intimate knowing relationship with God can do that. I kinda got the sense that you don't have any children, but if you do, next time you refer to a legalist, replace that with "my son/daughter the legalist" and see if it doesn't change your attitude towards them.
 

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