really matt 28:19-20
Context of Jn 3:5 “born again”
John1:26 John answered them, saying, I baptize with water: but there standeth one among you, whom ye know not; (John prepared the way by baptism)
John 2:6 And there were set there six waterpots of stone, after the manner of the purifying of the Jews, containing two or three firkins apiece. (Old covenant prefiguring of baptism, purification from sin)(His disciples believed because the ever Virgin mother of God interceded Jn 2:11)
John3:5 Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. (Baptism)
John 3:22 After these things came Jesus and his disciples into the land of Judaea; and there he tarried with them, and baptized. 23 And John also was baptizing in Aenon near to Salim, because there was much water there: and they came, and were baptized.(Baptism / water)
John 4:1 When therefore the Lord knew how the Pharisees had heard that Jesus made and baptized more disciples than John.
Born again means Baptismal regeneration!
My fear is that many who share your beliefs fail to realize the significance of the cross. They point to scripture prior to the cross. They point to scripture prior to the revelation to Paul by Jesus. They feel Jesus's sacrifice on the cross was not enough. Brother, we just have to realize we do not agree on this matter. I pray we both understand and serve our Lord according to his will. I hope we fellowship in Heaven one day soon when our thoughts and understandings are in agreement.