I agree with your righteous sentiment. We ought not to paint everyone with a broad brush. I get that and I agree with you on that point. But am I really painting people with a broad brush?
Words have meaning and in order to attain a fuller understanding of various concepts, one needs to tighten up definitions. One might examine preconceived notions but is that, in truth, deconstruction? One might explore presuppositions but is THAT, in truth, deconstruction? One might question a religious tradition, but is that, in truth. deconstruction?
I don't think so. Consider the word "deconstruction" itself. If I am right, the prefix "de-" in the word "deconstruction" indicates "reversal". A particular belief system is systematically being reversed, which results in a departure from that system altogether.
In the building trade, we call that "demolition" -- the process of removing part or all of a building to make way for newer parts or a completely new building. It is very costly to remove an entire building. It is more cost-effective to remove the roof and the walls and keep the foundation.
Paul the apostle spoke about this in his first epistle to the Corinthians. In that context, Paul speaks about his role as the foundation builder, and one man might build on top of the foundation with fireproof materials. In contrast, another man might build with combustible materials. The foundation, of course, is non-combustible. The teaching of Paul is uncontestable as it comes by direct revelation from above. Thus, if a man or a woman were to build on the solid foundation of Jesus Christ, one would be saved even if he or she should build with combustible materials. (false doctrines.)
Thus, concerning the faith, one will do well to demolish down to the foundation but keep the foundation. Based on the conversations I have been reading on this board, I fear that some are deconstructing or demolishing the foundation itself.
But why is it called "deconstruction"? Why do people use $10 words they borrowed from a college professor? I fear some are giving way to peer pressure, or attempting to gain approval, or fear the lack of authenticity.
I design houses for a living, so one might say that I am in the construction business. Builders begin with the foundation and build everything on top of that. The strength of the building depends on strong materials and good engineering practices. But suppose the house has a leaky roof. One is not likely to deconstruct the house all the way down to the foundation and rebuild the house just to fix a leaky roof.
Deconstruction doesn't seem to indicate an examination of a doctrinal confession. The goal of deconstructionism isn't to fix the house; the goal of deconstructionism is to demolish the house. The use of a $10 word seems to obfuscate the actual process. A Baptist who questions one of the distinctives isn't destroying the foundation. Not even close. But I am concerned for those in the deconstruction movement who claim to have abandoned Christianity, when in fact, one has abandoned "folk" Christianity characteristic of young children.
But I also fear for the college-age Christians who beg the approval of professors and classmates and in the face of challenges to authenticity, burn the entire house down.