It comes to learning that all human beings start off without having the holy spirit.
The Victim can overcome the things that has happened to them, in finding Yahava, but if they choose to blame Yahava for the others mistake or abuse, it could be much harder.
Jesus states in Mark 7:20 He went on: “What comes out of a person is what defiles them. 21 For it is from within, out of a person's heart, that evil thoughts come—sexual immorality, theft, murder, 22 adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy, slander, arrogance and folly. 23 All these evils come from inside and defile a person.”
Those are just some of my thoughts
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