I am sorry, I can't follow your thoughts.
The fear of the Lord has many aspects, if one is a believer or not is one component with different keywords, I tried to give some incomplete words, I quote -
1. afraid, scared, anxiety, guilt, punishment.
2. Holy Fear, awe, respectfully, reverent, submission.
Tell me your definitions, examples, feelings.
It's not that simple at all.
Thanks.
Okay, sorry about that.
Presently when I read in the Bible about the "fear of the Lord" (there are many verses) I believe it to mean #2, Holy fear, awe, reverence, reverent respect, total submission. And this was something I learned by experience when I was part of a fellowship some 25+ years ago. The presence of the Lord was heavily with and on us for about 2ish years.
During that time, it was a fearful thing just to prepare to go to our meetings. Fearful because I didn't want to disrespect, dishonour, fall short or disappoint God in any way. (All the members felt that way...we had a healthy fear because we also experienced God's discipline and displeasure). I made sure that my conscious was completely clean before showing up.
When in my younger years (having grown up in a Christian household) I had a year or 2 of rebellion and I was in sin, I experienced #1 (I did not experience all of what you listed, but I agree it all could be included in the list), guilt (because I knew better), scard of getting caught in my rebellion (yet knowing that God saw ALL), but not scard enough to stop. I was doing what I wanted to do knowing it wasn't God’s will. Foolishness!! Thinking back, rebellion is just plain stupid and unwise because your only hurting yourself (and perhaps others). I had to fail big time before I cried out to God. And, true to His word, He rescued me and set me on a much better path. I'm still on that path....way, way, way farther down the road from when I started 40 years ago.
I would say, because of the sum of my experiences with God in my 61 years of life I have a healthy fear of Him (although it's a very small sample size compared to His eternity). So, when I read about the fear of the Lord in His word, I whole-heartedly agree!
I also think it's very important to learn about it as it could save you...it's as important as learning about His love. (It's double-sided...the fear of the Lord AND the love of God...a perfect balance.)
For your benefit I will also add that I know Him to be very loving, caring, thoughtful, faithful, tender-hearted, fiercely protective, long-suffering, kind, wise, and humorous.
I hope i explained myself better so you can follow (understand).
Peace and blessings!