It think it's pretty in par. But I don't think that you should live those that are fighting you. Jesus says " live those that persecute you" but I think that scenario isn't always correct.
A couple of comments are necessary.
Jesus said to be as gentle as a dove,
but as wise as a serpent.
He never said we were supposed to be stupid and let ourselves be trampled upon.
So if someone is "fighting you", and only YOU know what you mean or who you mean...
then I'd say your right.
But right, how?
By hating them? No.
We are to love our fellow human beings that are also created in the image of God even though they may not accept this.
But we don't have to like them, do we?
I don't like everyone I love.
Agape love...God's love.
Those that fight with you and persecute you could be avoided and you would still be in God's grace IF you don't hate them.
I think we all know persons like this. Nowhere in scripture does it say we have to ACCEPT persecution if we could avoid it.
I hope this is what you meant...