I think God knew what the risks were when He made us with the ability to love Him or not. He chose to make us anyway. If we loved Him, fine. If we didn't, He'd live with that; and maybe someday we'd change our minds. We cannot damage God if we don't love Him. We'd be happier if we did love God; but He leaves that choice up to us.
We can however cause God more grief if we damage each other. If I injure one of His children, God cares. If I get too far out of hand, putting me in hell might a very good idea where I'm with other nasty people.
Likewise if I am unforgiving when someone is sorry, God is very disappointed in me. I'm choosing to keep a problem alive when it could vanish if I was willing to forgive. Surely some people won't be forgiven by God if they refuse to be forgiving. They can pay for that sin by being tormented. We can learn the easy way or the hard way. Yes, God can make us pay for our sins if we are making His other children miserable. I think He does it to protect them more than to punish us.
Matthew 18:23 Therefore is the kingdom of heaven likened unto a certain king, which would take account of his servants.
24 And when he had begun to reckon, one was brought unto him, which owed him ten thousand talents.
25 But forasmuch as he had not to pay, his lord commanded him to be sold, and his wife, and children, and all that he had, and payment to be made.
26 The servant therefore fell down, and worshipped him, saying, Lord, have patience with me, and I will pay thee all.
27 Then the lord of that servant was moved with compassion, and loosed him, and forgave him the debt.
28 But the same servant went out, and found one of his fellowservants, which owed him an hundred pence: and he laid hands on him, and took him by the throat, saying, Pay me that thou owest.
29 And his fellowservant fell down at his feet, and besought him, saying, Have patience with me, and I will pay thee all.
30 And he would not: but went and cast him into prison, till he should pay the debt.
31 So when his fellowservants saw what was done, they were very sorry, and came and told unto their lord all that was done.
32 Then his lord, after that he had called him, said unto him, O thou wicked servant, I forgave thee all that debt, because thou desiredst me:
33 Shouldest not thou also have had compassion on thy fellowservant, even as I had pity on thee?
34 And his lord was wroth, and delivered him to the tormentors, till he should pay all that was due unto him.
35 So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.
Note it: The punishment lasts until the debt is paid.
We can however cause God more grief if we damage each other. If I injure one of His children, God cares. If I get too far out of hand, putting me in hell might a very good idea where I'm with other nasty people.
Likewise if I am unforgiving when someone is sorry, God is very disappointed in me. I'm choosing to keep a problem alive when it could vanish if I was willing to forgive. Surely some people won't be forgiven by God if they refuse to be forgiving. They can pay for that sin by being tormented. We can learn the easy way or the hard way. Yes, God can make us pay for our sins if we are making His other children miserable. I think He does it to protect them more than to punish us.
Matthew 18:23 Therefore is the kingdom of heaven likened unto a certain king, which would take account of his servants.
24 And when he had begun to reckon, one was brought unto him, which owed him ten thousand talents.
25 But forasmuch as he had not to pay, his lord commanded him to be sold, and his wife, and children, and all that he had, and payment to be made.
26 The servant therefore fell down, and worshipped him, saying, Lord, have patience with me, and I will pay thee all.
27 Then the lord of that servant was moved with compassion, and loosed him, and forgave him the debt.
28 But the same servant went out, and found one of his fellowservants, which owed him an hundred pence: and he laid hands on him, and took him by the throat, saying, Pay me that thou owest.
29 And his fellowservant fell down at his feet, and besought him, saying, Have patience with me, and I will pay thee all.
30 And he would not: but went and cast him into prison, till he should pay the debt.
31 So when his fellowservants saw what was done, they were very sorry, and came and told unto their lord all that was done.
32 Then his lord, after that he had called him, said unto him, O thou wicked servant, I forgave thee all that debt, because thou desiredst me:
33 Shouldest not thou also have had compassion on thy fellowservant, even as I had pity on thee?
34 And his lord was wroth, and delivered him to the tormentors, till he should pay all that was due unto him.
35 So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.
Note it: The punishment lasts until the debt is paid.