Grailhunter
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Procedures in discipline
- Arrange a private meeting with the offender.
- If a private meeting fails, meet with them and several witnesses.
- Admonish and warn them.
- As a final resort, bring the matter up to the whole church.
- Remove their membership, and avoid them.
- Be ready to forgive them when repentance occurs.
The Catholics called it excommunication.
If a person recants or repents they can be brought back into the church.
It is all about the desire to control. Now if you know the history of the Catholics that headed down a dark path and the desire to take control of salvation.
Judgment Day does not occur in a church with the members of a church.
We had a fine church with a lot of potential, but they got into people's personal lives and kicked people out of church and then they would shun them and not do business with them. Before long they were known as the cult in town.
One of the reasons I asked what kind of sins "does the average Christian commit" Most of these are going to be mundane. Is the church going to address thievery, child molestation, or rape? These are legalities. And is there a difference with some one that attends or if they are a member?
What is the pastoral team going to council people on...smoking, drinking, gambling....maybe, usually it is more personal. Actual witchcraft is a no brainer. A lot of times they are accusing people of sins that are not bibleical.
In motion Christians have developed a strong interest in what I call crotch patrols.
Still as long as the church makes it clear that they have rules against un-wed couples or smoking or drinking, or gambling, the people can choose whether or not to come to that church. I do not think that it is a sin for a church to come up with unbiblical rules....they just need to warn people that they have this running around in their head. But still the truth is important. If they say these sins are biblical, then they are not telling the truth and that is a sin, by the church.
Certainly a lot of pastors would prefer that everyone in his or her congregation would be fine upstanding Christians, but as Christ said, I came not to call the righteous, but sinners to repentance. It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.
It is a different way of applying....the Way.
In one of the Sunday school class that I attended, a lady was talking about her sister who was a lesbian. She said she did not know how to help her. She felt is was wrong to invite her to this church. So I ask, saying, why not invite her to church and have the faith that Christ can deal with her. Why not give her and Christ a chance to work it out?
Issues with alcoholism, drug use, and homosexuality are problems that they have to be workout. It is not like a switch that can be demanded by some one else to stop. Who was it that Christ was eating and drinking with?
We are the light....the example for others to see. Influence by example and association, can't do that by kicking people out. How many people here do not go to church because they were done wrong by a church?
The cast out can be a cop out. Kind of Catholic, kind of Jewish....remove the evil from among you? Not all of us were brought up in Christian homes and family....some come to Christ broken. Ministries....what does that mean? Ministering spirits...what is that? Are we going to accept those broken lives and show them the Way? Yes we should council and yes if they are trying we should work with them. And then again there is that line in the sand.
Now as I said in another post, sometimes we have to judge and sometimes we have to take action...what these people are actually doing in the church. What did Christ do with the money changers? I am not doing the soap box thing or the being hypocritical. I was told that a homosexual was in the church's bathroom approaching the kids....I drug him out by his hair....through the church....and threw him in the ditch out front. I did not condemn him....did not cuss him....but he got the message.
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