No we are not, when you set yourself out top "not " do something it becomes a law, and is all about you, in Christ we are supposed to give all things to Him so He gets the glory, Self loves to steal His glory, Self needs a pat on the back for doing the right thing. When you are working at perfecting yourself, He sits back because HE cannot do anything. If you have to behave yourself, to ener in, than HE died for nothing because according to you, His works where not finished and you are having to finish them
Okay I have tried to get you to see where I am coming from, and I don't believe that you are holding to antinomianism (do what you like because you are going to be saved anyway).
I have tried to show you that the law of Love is exactly the same as the Ten Commandments.
So if you are not bound by that law then you are free to do the following:
Dishonour God as much as you like.
Pray to statues of Christ and Mary, or even Egyptian cats.
Blaspheme as much as you like.
Steal anything or download paid music free from the internet.
Tell as many lies as you like.
Hate people without a cause.
Look at any woman with lust (adultery at heart).
Fornicate as much as you like.
Dishonour your parents.
Because you are not under any law, you can do all those things with free abandon and yet be acquitted in the judgment. You may not be saying these things in so many words, but that is what you are actually teaching others, and those who believe you will go and do those things, end up coming second best in the judgment and God may require their blood at your hands.
So, if you are not bound by any law, then eat, drink and be merry, but don't grizzle when others may see your conduct and accuse you of hypocrisy.
Am I shocking you? Is what I am saying the truth about someone who is not bound by any law?
Or do you have a set of personal morals which you believe is appropriate for Christian living without hypocrisy.
I am not judging you, but interpreting what you are saying about what appears to be what you believe is not being bound by the law - Mosaic, civil, or God's moral law.
So I am challenging you to define clearly how you usually conduct yourself as someone not being under the law. And just saying "love" doesn't say anything at all. I want you to define it in practical terms that make it quite clear what you mean.
I can say I am loving a prostitute while having nooky with her, but is that morally right?