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From my X / Twitter “For you feed” this evening:

“A few quick reminders for every believer before hitting ‘submit’:

Speak truth with love (Eph 4:15)
Be quick to listen, slow to speak (Ja 1:19)
Let your words build up, not tear down (Eph 4:29)
Don’t repay insult with insult (1Pet 3:9)
Avoid foolish argument (2 Tim 2:23)
Show gentleness to all (Titus 3:2)
Do everything for God’s glory (1 Cor 10:31)

The world is watching. Represent Christ well.”

(Scott Roberts)

 

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The forum is a little bit artificial in nature. Most people don't reveal themselves who they really are. So these can post anonymously without any kind of responsibility. And this causes some to be extravagant in their judgments. They are safe behind their computer screens.

What I find to be difficult is to answer people who are speaking things that are obviously untrue...just not to them.

The forum is public. These aren't private chats. So then the advantage of getting the message OUT THERE...can quickly turn into a mob gathering if the truth rankles too much. And for some that makes the forum more interesting.

My fear is for the weaker ones who come here and see the division and insults being hurled around.

But this is not a church...not a gathering of believers...it is a chat group where people can hammer out what they think Christianity is.

Results will vary! :)
 

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The forum is a little bit artificial in nature. Most people don't reveal themselves who they really are. So these can post anonymously without any kind of responsibility. And this causes some to be extravagant in their judgments. They are safe behind their computer screens.

What I find to be difficult is to answer people who are speaking things that are obviously untrue...just not to them.

The forum is public. These aren't private chats. So then the advantage of getting the message OUT THERE...can quickly turn into a mob gathering if the truth rankles too much. And for some that makes the forum more interesting.

My fear is for the weaker ones who come here and see the division and insults being hurled around.

But this is not a church...not a gathering of believers...it is a chat group where people can hammer out what they think Christianity is.

Results will vary! :)
My hope is that by choosing to be invested, sincere, and gentle, I can help people remember these qualities in themselves. And honestly, that's all I can do, besides pray.
 

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My hope is that by choosing to be invested, sincere, and gentle, I can help people remember these qualities in themselves. And honestly, that's all I can do, besides pray.
This is good. I appreciate your role here. My role is not expected to be popular by any means. We all have different experiences and capacities/gifts. We can't expect everyone to communicate the same things or the same way. We need to discern the body of Christ. But we also need to discern who is in dire need of help and re-direction. Not everyone here is a teacher or has a body ministry. Opinions fly around willy nilly, and many are so indoctrinated that they say things without any kind of reasoning or biblical support (apart from a faulty interpretation).
 

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This is good. I appreciate your role here. My role is not expected to be popular by any means. We all have different experiences and capacities/gifts. We can't expect everyone to communicate the same things or the same way. We need to discern the body of Christ. But we also need to discern who is in dire need of help and re-direction. Not everyone here is a teacher or has a body ministry. Opinions fly around willy nilly, and many are so indoctrinated that they say things without any kind of reasoning or biblical support (apart from a faulty interpretation).
yeah epi i already know your role . You probaly expecting to get this sister to become a follower of you .
WELL i seen you my friend .
EVEN calling ME a religious extremist FOR preaching the one true gospel TO an athiest . talk about lost epi .
You not only wont preach JESUS and the dire need to believe
YOU called me a religious extremist for doing so .
TITUS TWO WIFE , LOOK OUT FOR THISGUY . HE knows aspects about holiness
and aspects about righteousness , ITS JUST with HIM , FAITH IN CHRIST is NOT NEcESSARY at all .
In fact when i preached FAITH IN JESUS , the need to beleive IN JESUS to an athiest
WELL epi called me a religous extremist .
yes epi , you leave me no choice but to warn against you now . IT was well written by paul
ANTOHER gopsel WILL NOT be accepted . as well as by john . You need to repent asap .
 
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yeah epi i already know your role . You probaly expecting to get this sister to become a follower of you .
WELL i seen you my friend .
EVEN calling ME a religious extremist FOR preaching the one true gospel TO an athiest . talk about lost epi .

You talk AT people. You treat people as if they were a poster or a label not a person. When you talk to an atheist you are only talking to the atheism...not the human.

And you do that because you are not acting like a human at all. You are just a propaganda machine. No love, just a cardboard cut-out of a religious slogan that is fully out of context.
You not only wont preach JESUS and the dire need to believe
YOU called me a religious extremist for doing so .

Only because you speak out of context and without understanding. Grandstanding and virtue signalling at the EXPENSE of others. The Pharisees did the very same thing. But the Spirit of God doesn't operate in a carnal way like that.
TITUS TWO WIFE , LOOK OUT FOR THISGUY . HE knows aspects about holiness
and aspects about righteousness , ITS JUST with HIM , FAITH IN CHRIST is NOT NEcESSARY at all .
This is false of course. I have said that you need to seek the Lord and actually know the Lord.,,,not just spew out religious propaganda. You need to learn some wisdom.
In fact when i preached FAITH IN JESUS , the need to beleive IN JESUS to an athiest
WELL epi called me a religous extremist .

You are not speaking to the person but to the atheists of the world on that thread. Shameful behaviour. Very immature. So you are just talking into a mirror. The person himself is of no interest to you...just the ideology.....just the propaganda you can virtue signal with. I discern by the Spirit and I don't see others as ministry fodder or people to attack with a preconceived argument.

You could never be a teacher or minister of any kind...way too immature...unless it was a cult or some "exclusive" extremist group. People are easily fooled by the grandstanding....but I know a pretender when I hear one.

You need to stop pointing fingers and take the words of Jesus to heart.
yes epi , you leave me no choice but to warn against you now . IT was well written by paul
ANTOHER gopsel WILL NOT be accepted . as well as by john . You need to repent asap .
The other gospel is what you are promoting...one that has no love or mercy...just an extremist and dogmatic stance that only requires lip service. The "trenches" that you say people should join you in...is actually just a ditch at the side of the road that you need to climb out of and be cleansed from. Maybe listen to my podcast on the "cleansing of the word". It's not dogmatic...but it is edifying to the inner man.

The exclusive club is a cult....that excludes God.
 

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If only there were a manual on what to do when two or more people you like go to war with each other.
Jesus came to bring a sword. The truth will never be accepted by the majority. To be with Jesus means to take a stand in truth and righteousness. Cursed is he that keeps back his sword from blood. The lukewarm and fence sitters will have no thank from God....quite the opposite.

But you should only do as you feel is right. Not every hill is meant to die on. :)

I am trying to save souls from shame and everlasting condemnation. But the egos just won't fly.
 

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Now is that a fence post we should be hitting or should we dig a hole to put the post in?
 

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If only there were a manual on what to do when two or more people you like go to war with each other.
There is sister.
It’s the Bible. Reading our Bibles enables us to rightly divide the word of truth. Test the spirits as we are told by the word of the Lord in 1 John 4:1. Let God be true, but every man a liar, as Romans 3:4 says. It enables us to discern wolves in sheep’s clothing and the true sheep.

Test what I say. @amigo de christo is a true sheep. Sticking to the scriptures. One HAS to BELIEVE on JESUS CHRIST to be saved. Amigo professes that. Epi does not.

Epi repeatedly calls Amigo an extremist for saying you must believe on the Lord Jesus Christ to be saved.
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I don't think picking sides is a moral issue in this case. I think everyone needs to try to be patient and forgiving and work on being as peaceable as possible. To let insults and judgments go so we can overcome evil with good among us.

Am I anyone that I should say we should value these things even as we "correct" others. Maybe not.

But love is a fruit of the spirit. Love is supposed to be how the world knows we follow Jesus. And no, I really don't think there's a lot of correction being done in love right now. Love is patient and kind....

@amigo de christo Im sorry Epi called you a religious extremist. But I hope you can forgive him for that even as you disagree with him.
 
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I don't think picking sides is a moral issue in this case. I think everyone needs to try to be patient and forgiving and work on being as peaceable as possible. To let insults and judgments go so we can overcome evil with good among us.

Am I anyone that I should say we should value these things even as we "correct" others. Maybe not.

But love is a fruit of the spirit. Love is supposed to be how the world knows we follow Jesus. And no, I really don't think there's a lot of correction being done in love right now. Love is patient and kind....

@amigo de christo Im sorry Epi called you a religious extremist. But I hope you can forgive him for that even as you disagree with him.
your missing the entire point . My feelings are not hurt at all that EPI called me that .
You need to see WHY he did . And you need to understand how deadly inclusivism truly is my dear sister .
Another gospel , cannot be accepted . And believe me , IT WONT be on my watch .
We cant just hug and get along , WITH those who bring a false gospel and hammer
folks who simply remind all About the dire NEED to beleive on JESUS .
I understand you want to see peace amongst us . but sister not when they bring
such abomination that totally dishonors the SON .
HERE is the secrete i think that many have forgotten .
WHO , yes sister , WHO were we supposed to have loved above all .
Above nieghbor , above wife , husband , son , daughter or any . GOD , THUS CHRIST .
THEN you can see clearly HOW to love your neighbor .
But any love that omits truth and just tries to get along , IT IS bad sister . REMEMbER , GOD FIRST . We must put
HIM first .
 
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Now is that a fence post we should be hitting or should we dig a hole to put the post in?
Let us all always remember
that if one is digging for water that cometh of men it is but water of a draughthouse .
And believe you me if anyone is digging for that water , THEY aint gonna find anything worth drinking .
Let us keep that in mind and stay in the scriptures by which to test all who do speak .
 
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your missing the entire point . My feelings are not hurt at all that EPI called me that .
You need to see WHY he did . And you need to understand how deadly inclusivism truly is my dear sister .
Another gospel , cannot be accepted . And believe me , IT WONT be on my watch .
We cant just hug and get along , WITH those who bring a false gospel and hammer
folks who simply remind all About the dire NEED to beleive on JESUS .
I understand you want to see peace amongst us . but sister not when they bring
such abomination that totally dishonors the SON .
HERE is the secrete i think that many have forgotten .
WHO , yes sister , WHO were we supposed to have loved above all .
Above nieghbor , above wife , husband , son , daughter or any . GOD , THUS CHRIST .
THEN you can see clearly HOW to love your neighbor .
But any love that omits truth and just tries to get along , IT IS bad sister . REMEMbER , GOD FIRST . We must put
HIM first .

Im not asking you to accept what Epi teaches. I think Im asking what Im starting to think is the impossible for most people on the forum. Im asking for people to not find some "reason" why they can and should be unloving. Whether they are correcting, exhorting, or rebuking, none of it matters if they don't love. In fact, this is main reason why it's almost always received as just noise. There's no love in it so it's just clanging cymbals.
 

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Im not asking you to accept what Epi teaches. I think Im asking what Im starting to think is the impossible for most people on the forum. Im asking for people to not find some "reason" why they can and should be unloving. Whether they are correcting, exhorting, or rebuking, none of it matters if they don't love. In fact, this is main reason why it's almost always received as just noise. There's no love in it so it's just clanging cymbals.
If any comes and brings another gospel . did paul say just try and hug them
OR did he say let them be accursed . that means PUT OUT sister .
And did john say we just get along . NO
he said do not even let such a one into your house or even bid the godspeed .
THERE is NO LOVE in a false gopsel and there is no love in allowing it to remain either .
Epi must repent . Till he does i have no choice but to keep warning agaisnt him .
Grave . where on earth have the grave men went sister . seems everyone just wants to get along
and find common ground these days .
You do realize that is how the churches leavened up .
THEY stopped correcting and just started trying to overlook differences and get along .
Leaven leavens sister . I must do and i will do as GOD leads me sister .
Yall need to pray for men like me . To do what most no longer will .
At least pray for us sister .
 
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If any comes and brings another gospel . did paul say just try and hug them
OR did he say let them be accursed . that means PUT OUT sister .
And did john say we just get along . NO
he said do not even let such a one into your house or even bid the godspeed .
THERE is NO LOVE in a false gopsel and there is no love in allowing it to remain either .
Epi must repent . Till he does i have no choice but to keep warning agaisnt him .
Grave . where on earth have the grave men went sister . seems everyone just wants to get along
and find common ground these days .
You do realize that is how the churches leavened up .
THEY stopped correcting and just started trying to overlook differences and get along .
Leaven leavens sister . I must do and i will do as GOD leads me sister .
Yall need to pray for men like me . To do what most no longer will .
At least pray for us sister .
In that, no worries. Im praying.
 
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If any comes and brings another gospel . did paul say just try and hug them
OR did he say let them be accursed . that means PUT OUT sister .
And did john say we just get along . NO
he said do not even let such a one into your house or even bid the godspeed .
THERE is NO LOVE in a false gopsel and there is no love in allowing it to remain either .
Epi must repent . Till he does i have no choice but to keep warning agaisnt him .
Grave . where on earth have the grave men went sister . seems everyone just wants to get along
and find common ground these days .
You do realize that is how the churches leavened up .
THEY stopped correcting and just started trying to overlook differences and get along .
Leaven leavens sister . I must do and i will do as GOD leads me sister .
Yall need to pray for men like me . To do what most no longer will .
At least pray for us sister .
@amigo de christo
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Im not asking you to accept what Epi teaches. I think Im asking what Im starting to think is the impossible for most people on the forum. Im asking for people to not find some "reason" why they can and should be unloving. Whether they are correcting, exhorting, or rebuking, none of it matters if they don't love. In fact, this is main reason why it's almost always received as just noise. There's no love in it so it's just clanging cymbals.


@amigo de christo

I don't want you to go against your conscience. Im sorry, brother. I think I just get frustrated on the forum sometimes. Sorry I made you a target of that.
 
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@amigo de christo

I don't want you to go against your conscience. Im sorry, brother. I think I just get frustrated on the forum sometimes. Sorry I made you a target of that.
To the trenches dear sister . if we think the hour was late yesterday , its only later today .
You are loved dear sister .