God is love...Yes that is true but God is also so much more than just love. You may not take the position I do but that does not leave you off the hook when others question you on your God of love. God knew everything before creating and still made the world knowing billions would go to hell. God approved the slaughter of many in the Conquest of Canaan (women and children too) and He Himself wiped out all mankind in the flood. So, for the reasons you don't accept what I believe, there are many, many more who won't accept your view of a loving God held in light to certain scriptures.
Yes in the OT God is shown as a God of Judgement...
But most people believe that when they were killed they went staright to hell.
I DO NOT.
Take the time of Joshua 7 and Achans sin.
He took the Babalonish garment and hid it.
We know the story...He was taken, and all his extended family..and his kids, wives, AND all his animals ....the ground opened up and swallowed them.
That was judgement of this life...they lost it...it is not the final judgement.
Any more than Sodom and Gomorrha
Matt 10.15
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Verily I say unto you, It shall be more tolerable for the land of Sodom and Gomorrha in the day of judgment, than for that city.”
No one has been judged yet...because the Day of Judgment has not arrived.
So many believe that God delights in zapping people off to hell without a second thought.
We have not seen the end of anyones story ...yet.
Including King Saul and Judas too.
"there but for the grace of God go any one of us..."
Yet we exalt ourselves ...
I would not want to be in any mans shoes when we all stand before God...and He shows many how hard and harsh they actually believed Him to be!! Woe on them...