Do Men Have Authority Over Women?

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Scott Downey

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To put it simply, if you follow Scripture, yes.

Wives are to submit to husbands.
Women are not to have authority over men in the church.
Women are to remain quiet in the church (yes that means women pastors is wholly against Scripture).

A few comments to notice about godly wives, which would be the women of God.

Submissive to their husband
Chaste conduct accompanied with Fear (of the LORD most likely)
Called her husband Lord and obeyed the husband
Not afraid with Terror if you do good
Husbands should dwell with wives with understanding that they are the weaker vessel and honor that, so that your prayers are not hindered

None of that is in vogue anymore whatsoever in our godless society.
I wonder how many Christian women would agree with this today or are corrupted by LOT's world around them. The perverse and crooked generation of today.

AND, none of this way of life to keep in a women's heart is earned by a husbands behavior toward her.
It is simply the government of God.

1 Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands
2 when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear.
6 as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you do good and are not afraid with any terror.
7 Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.



1 Peter 3 New King James Version


Submission to Husbands
1 Wives, likewise, be submissive to your own husbands, that even if some do not obey the word, they, without a word, may be won by the conduct of their wives, 2 when they observe your chaste conduct accompanied by fear. 3 Do not let your adornment be merely outward—arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel— 4 rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God. 5 For in this manner, in former times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned themselves, being submissive to their own husbands, 6 as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, whose daughters you are if you do good and are not afraid with any terror.

A Word to Husbands
7 Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.
 
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Harcourt Fenton Mudd what have you been up to? Have you been drinking again!, You good for nothing thing.
Then he sees number '500'
God's ways are definitely not like this. It always gave me a laugh.
 
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Women should not have authority over men either, I.e judges or in government

woman cannot be priests either

only a woman can be a mother, only a man can be a father!

a priest is a father spreading the seed of the gospel of Jesus Christ!

according to the order of melchisedec Christ is high priest and they are low priests
 

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I don't think we have that directive in Scripture.
It is a judgement and a curse written in the prophets on the nation, if women and children rule over men.
The LORD takes away men from leadership, and gives them over to children and women rulers.

Isaiah 3
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Judgment on Judah and Jerusalem
1 For behold, the Lord, the Lord of hosts,
Takes away from Jerusalem and from Judah

The stock and the store,
The whole supply of bread and the whole supply of water;
2 The mighty man and the man of war,
The judge and the prophet,
And the diviner and the elder;
3 The captain of fifty and the honorable man,
The counselor and the skillful artisan,
And the expert enchanter.

4 “I will give children to be their princes,
And babes shall rule over them.
5 The people will be oppressed,

Every one by another and every one by his neighbor;
The child will be insolent toward the elder,
And the base toward the honorable.”

6 When a man takes hold of his brother
In the house of his father, saying,
“You have clothing;
You be our ruler,
And let these ruins be under your power,”
7 In that day he will protest, saying,
“I cannot cure your ills,
For in my house is neither food nor clothing;
Do not make me a ruler of the people.”

8 For Jerusalem stumbled,
And Judah is fallen,
Because their tongue and their doings
Are against the Lord,
To provoke the eyes of His glory.
9 The look on their countenance witnesses against them,
And they declare their sin as Sodom;
They do not hide it.
Woe to their soul!
For they have brought evil upon themselves.


10 “Say to the righteous that it shall be well with them,
For they shall eat the fruit of their doings.
11 Woe to the wicked! It shall be ill with him,
For the reward of his hands shall be given him.
12 As for My people, children are their oppressors,
And women rule over them.
O My people! Those who lead you cause you to err,
And destroy the way of your paths.”
 
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It is a judgement and a curse written in the prophets on the nation, if women and children rule over men.
The LORD takes away men from leadership, and gives them over to children and women rulers.

Isaiah 3
New King James Version


Judgment on Judah and Jerusalem
1 For behold, the Lord, the Lord of hosts,
Takes away from Jerusalem and from Judah

The stock and the store,
The whole supply of bread and the whole supply of water;
2 The mighty man and the man of war,
The judge and the prophet,
And the diviner and the elder;
3 The captain of fifty and the honorable man,
The counselor and the skillful artisan,
And the expert enchanter.

4 “I will give children to be their princes,
And babes shall rule over them.
5 The people will be oppressed,

Every one by another and every one by his neighbor;
The child will be insolent toward the elder,
And the base toward the honorable.”

6 When a man takes hold of his brother
In the house of his father, saying,
“You have clothing;
You be our ruler,
And let these ruins be under your power,”
7 In that day he will protest, saying,
“I cannot cure your ills,
For in my house is neither food nor clothing;
Do not make me a ruler of the people.”

8 For Jerusalem stumbled,
And Judah is fallen,
Because their tongue and their doings
Are against the Lord,
To provoke the eyes of His glory.
9 The look on their countenance witnesses against them,
And they declare their sin as Sodom;
They do not hide it.
Woe to their soul!
For they have brought evil upon themselves.


10 “Say to the righteous that it shall be well with them,
For they shall eat the fruit of their doings.
11 Woe to the wicked! It shall be ill with him,
For the reward of his hands shall be given him.
12 As for My people, children are their oppressors,
And women rule over them.
O My people! Those who lead you cause you to err,
And destroy the way of your paths.”
Interesting, I'm going to have to study up on this one. Thanks.
 

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What you have described above is man's sinfulness.

If man and wife would only realize that the Holy Matrimony is sacred to God there will never be divorces. Yes, the union between man and woman has spiritual significance. The man is to love his bride and in return, she submits to her husband, just as God loves His bride and in return she obeys God in all things.

To God Be The Glory

I get what you are saying. Considering it was said somewhere in the thread (not by you) women can ask questions but are not to give an input.. I’ll agree and drop the topic.
 
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Deborah was a Judge [ruler]
Have you ever noticed this women was judging the people contrary to the Law?


Deuteronomy 16:18 King James Version
18 Judges and officers shalt thou make thee in all thy gates, which the Lord thy God giveth thee, throughout thy tribes: and they shall judge the people with just judgment.

Judges 4
4 And Deborah, a prophetess, the wife of Lapidoth, judged Israel at that time.
5 And she dwelt under the palm tree of Deborah between Ramah and Bethel in Mount Ephraim, and the children of Israel came up to her for judgment.

She judged the people outside the city gates in the hill country of Ephraim under her palm tree. Why were the people not following the commands of the LORD?
 

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Women should not have authority over men either, I.e judges or in government
where is that found in the bible

is the book of Ruth in your bible, what about Deborah and Ester ?

And God says to obey our government leaders in Romans 13:1-7. It doesn't matter if they are women or men. God is in control of every governments leadership. They do not exist apart from His will and Sovereignty.
 
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"And call no man your father upon the earth: for one is your Father, which is in heaven."

Matt 23:9
Call no man Father?

Is this an absolute requirement?
Or is Our Savior condemning pride and spiritual pride of the Pharisees?

God calls men father!

Ex 3:6 Moreover he said, I am the God of thy fathers, the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob. And Moses hid his face; for he was afraid to look upon God.

Jesus calls men father!

Jn 6:49 Your fathers did eat manna in the wilderness, and are dead.

Mary calls men father!

Lk 1:55 As he spake to our fathers, to Abraham, and to his seed for ever.

Peter calls men father!

Acts 3:13 The God of Abraham, and of Isaac, and of Jacob, the God of our fathers, hath glorified his Son Jesus; whom ye delivered up, and denied him in the presence of Pilate, when he was determined to let him go.

Acts 3:22 Moses said unto the fathers…

The stephen calls men father!

Acts 7 Stephen quotes the fathers over and over!

The Bible calls men father!

Luke 16:24
And he cried and said, Father Abraham, have mercy on me, and send Lazarus, that he may dip the tip of his finger in water, and cool my tongue; for I am tormented in this flame.


Acts 3:13
The God of Abraham, and of Isaac, and of Jacob, the God of our fathers, hath glorified his Son Jesus; whom ye delivered up, and denied him in the presence of Pilate, when he was determined to let him go.


Jn 4:20 Our fathers worshipped in this mountain; and ye say, that in Jerusalem is the place where men ought to worship.

Jesus does not rebuke her for calling men father!


Then there is spiritual fathers!

Spiritual Fathers have care for our souls!

Acts 20:28 Take heed therefore unto yourselves, and to all the flock, over the which the Holy Ghost hath made you overseers, to feed the church of God, which he hath purchased with his own blood.

Jn 21:17 feed my sheep:

Heb 13:17 Obey them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for they care for your souls, as they that must give account, that they may do it with joy, and not with grief: for that is unprofitable for you.

1 Tim 1:2 Unto Timothy, my own son in the faith: Grace, mercy, and peace, from God our Father and Jesus Christ our Lord.

Gal 4:19 My little children, of whom I travail in birth again until Christ be formed in you

1 John 2
My little children, these things write I unto you, that ye sin not.

That makes Peter, Paul and John spiritual fathers, pastors of our souls!


Isa 22 the administrator of the kingdom is called father, so the same for Peter, the apostles, and their successors!

Jesus Christ continues HIS ministry in His new covenant church thru Peter, the apostles, and their successors with the same mission, power, and authority!
Mt 16:18 Mt 28:19 Acts 1:17 acts 8:31 & 35 acts 9:4 Lk 10:16 Jn 8:32 Jn 13:20 Jn 15:5 Jn 16:13 Jn 20:21-22 eph 2:20

Lk 10:16
He who hears you hears me...

John 13:20
Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that receiveth whomsoever I send receiveth me; and he that receiveth me receiveth him that sent me.

Jn 20:21 as my father sent me, so send in you. (The apostles) posses the same power mission and authority as Christ!
Peter, the apostles and their successors!


Eph 3: 14 For this cause I bow my knees unto the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ,

15 Of whom the whole family in heaven and earth is named,

every family in heaven and on earth is named from the “Father.” We are fathers in the Father.

Acts 7:2; 22:1, 1 John 2:13 – elders of the Church are called “fathers.” Therefore, we should ask the question, “Why don’t Protestants call their pastors “father?”

1 Cor. 4:17 – Paul calls Bishop Timothy a beloved and faithful “child” in the Lord.

2 Cor. 12:14 – Paul describes his role as parent over his “children” the Corinthians.

Phil. 2:22 – Paul calls Timothy’s service to him as a son serves a “father.”

1 Thess. 2:11- Paul compares the Church elders’ ministry to the people like a father with his children.

1 Tim. 1:2,18; 2 Tim. 1:2-3 – Paul calls Timothy his true “child” in the faith and his son.

Titus 1:4 – Paul calls Titus his true “child” in a common faith. Priests are our spiritual fathers in the family of God.

Philemon 10 – Paul says he has become the “father” of Onesimus.

Heb. 12:7,9 – emphasizes our earthly “fathers.” But these are not just biological but also spiritual (the priests of the Church).

1 Peter 5:13 – Peter refers to himself as father by calling Mark his “son.”

1 John 2:1,1 John 2:13,14 – John calls the elders of the Church “fathers.”

Isa 22:21-22 the prime minister who administer the kingdom under the king in the line of david Lk 1:32-23 has the title father and hold the keys Matt 16:18
 

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Have you ever noticed this women was judging the people contrary to the Law?


Deuteronomy 16:18 King James Version
18 Judges and officers shalt thou make thee in all thy gates, which the Lord thy God giveth thee, throughout thy tribes: and they shall judge the people with just judgment.

Judges 4
4 And Deborah, a prophetess, the wife of Lapidoth, judged Israel at that time.
5 And she dwelt under the palm tree of Deborah between Ramah and Bethel in Mount Ephraim, and the children of Israel came up to her for judgment.

She judged the people outside the city gates in the hill country of Ephraim under her palm tree. Why were the people not following the commands of the LORD?
They were.
 

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Women’s lib and feminism are part of atheistic communism’s attack on God and marriage and the family!

women’s lib is one the official planks in the communist manifesto!

women’s liberation!

what liberation?

liberation from husband, children and family!

to destroy marriage, the family and society as it was established by God!

the family is the fabric of society!

New world order must destroy the old “Christian” world order and church established by God and Christ!
 

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Women’s lib and feminism are part of atheistic communism’s attack on God and marriage and the family!

women’s lib is one the official planks in the communist manifesto!

women’s liberation!

what liberation?

liberation from husband, children and family!

to destroy marriage, the family and society as it was established by God!

the family is the fabric of society!

New world order must destroy the old “Christian” world order and church established by God and Christ!

You are throwing out the baby with the bathwater here. There are some good things that came out of the women's liberation movement.
 
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