"Fifty years ago, you never heard of a divorce in the Christian church. You never (even) heard of marriage counseling in the church... We're putting up with sin in the church."
a Godly Preacher, Leonard Ravenhill, with many other Godly Ministers have noted this decline in morality,
the growing sin of selfishness, idolatry, self-promotion, self-centeredness, things of the flesh, rebellion (open not hidden) against God and His Word, lack of conscience, disobedience, (I think a longer list is in Timothy, and repeated some in Revelation, why people or which people that is are not found in heaven.)
More of your BS understandings of what happened around 50 years ago and how it should have been handled.
Couples within the church also had gun shot weddings, just like the rest of the population.
Divorce was not as common back then either, but the people who married back then also suffered from marriage break ups and also went to their respective divorce lawyers and separated.
People within the church also had liaisons with the other respective church member and hid their activities from each other, just like it occurs today.
There were homosexuals and paedophiles and many people suffering abuse and bullying. Pastors spent many hours caring for the well being of people, doing often unqualified counselling of their congregational members.
The way you present yourself as the judge, jury and executioner, I believe that you would have been collecting the stones necessary for King David's stoning because of his activities with Bathsheba which would mean that you would have broken the generational chronology of Christ over 900 years prior to his birth.
People who act like you do, are graciously tolerated within the church, but the congregational people would not really want you as one of their friend because of your often displayed judgemental attitudes.
Grow up and come to your senses before it is too late and you become what you do not want to be like.